Ask Joe Column #8

Joe: why does it seem like when ever i get happy, and thing are going well... everything gets messed up? its really agravating!

Kylie: It's what I like to say: keep a negitive mind set and negitive things will produce from it. Why worry all the time? Just be happy and think positive thoughts and positive things will produce from it. It's like the old say, "hang around a dog too long and you'll become one."

Whats wrong with becoming a dog, they got quite the life

John: lol it is a saying, a statement thats all. Nothing wrong with being a dog, I actually agree they do have a pretty good life depending on the owner and surroundings. However, not all dogs have wonderful lifes, and the same goes for humans or any other animals for that matter.

Joe, I'm curious lol. How do you become a mod? Not like I wanna be a mod or anything, I just like knowing stuff :D

Like, how come some 'highly decorated' ppl on the site aren't mods but then some people are?

Curious me :D

XToBeWithYoux: Basically if we (the mods/admin) are looking for new moderators we will do a sweep of the site, observe people, discuss between eachother our thoughts and then pick and choose whom we see is fit. Then you'll recieve an PM from us asking if you would be upto the Job and that's basically it.

It isn't always about being 'highly decorated' with awards doesn't really mean anything. We base our picks off of knowledge, the way they present themselve, dictation, and so forth.

Oh okay thanks! I was curious and I knew you would give me a straightforward answer :D

Thanks! :)

Is there a pay? 8D Ha ha.

I don't really have a question I just sort of OMGed when I saw this 'Ask Joe' Column. It made me think of that movie, Mr Disguise or something? Ask Jeeves : O

JOEY. my man.

Can you make Pasta Bake as good as me? ;)

Eclipticxdreams: lol all advice/answers are free ;)

ha, no one ever said that this thread reminds them of that, thanks I suppose. :]

Fluffy: I don't know, how am I supposed to know if I've never had your Pasta Bake before? I'm always up for a challenge, name a place and I'll be there. It's like the 'Bobby Flay Showdown' on the food network...lol ;)

Can I eat the pasta bake you two make? ;D

ASPHYXIATED: Sure thing Lisa, just make sure you're in the crowd of people spectating :]

Anyone else have anything to ask? :]

Marry me?

ASPHYXIATED: lol Lisa...

I promise I'll be reeeal nice, lmao.

ASPHYXIATED: oh you silly girl, you make me laugh. ;]

Question;

How does one cure boredom?

ASPHYXIATED: listen to music, write poetry (after all that is what this site is about), go for a walk, just relax and watch nature, watch tv or a movie, play a game with someone, talk on the phone, search the net, read a book/magazine/newspaper, etc...

Gimme a good book to read, I've read everything here. Hahah.

You sound like a counsellor or something, Joe. :P

ASPHYXIATED: The Scarecrow, by Michael Connelly

Read all his, try again? :)

ASPHYXIATED: Liberty and Tyranny, by Mark R. Levin

Joeee.

Can you make better skyline chili than me? xD

LifesALovePoem: lol I make everything from scratch for the most part. Chili being one of them...

But is it better? Lol. Mine is from scratch as well. Goes amazingly on chili dogs with loads of cheese. :)

LifesALovePoem: How should I know? I never tasted yours before...lol

Are you talking to yourself again Joe...? Lol. Look who you addressed the last post to. xD

LifesALovePoem: You seeing things? lmao xD the chili must be getting to you...haha

Cheater! You changed it Joe...haha.

Joe,

How do you gain back trust from someone you've once hurt?

CHYNAdoll: It's pretty simple for the most part. Just be yourself and do what you feel is right ALL the time. Add them into your daily life, call them, hang out with them, do as much as you can do be with them or associate your day with them, eventually you will gain their trust back. Don't underestimate the impossible, anything is possible if you put your heart and soul to it.

Fading Away: Not so much a crush, I went out with her and then we broke it off a little later down the road. But it was hard for me to find a way to let her go. However, I came to realize (a little to late) that as long as she is happy, that is all that matters and nothing else.

I'm assuming you are asking me this because you don't know how to let someone go. Well, all I have to say is let them go, be happy that they are happy, don't down fall their happiness, you should be happy for them.

My stubbornness won't let me because I don't want to smother the person. Every time I'm around them or talk to them I plunge into a sort of depression because I know that as much as I hang out with them or talk to them I know that I can never call them mine.

CHYNAdoll: I'm going to tell you the same thing as I told " Fading Away".

I went out with a girl and then we broke it off a little later down the road. But it was hard for me to find a way to let her go. However, I came to realize (a little to late) that as long as she is happy, that is all that matters and nothing else.

Well, all I have to say is let them go, be happy that they are happy, don't down fall their happiness, you should be happy for them.

Fading Away: Indeed I do believe everything happens for a reason. What's meant to be will always find a way.

I have this little saying on my profile, which I find to be true in all aspects, so I'll share it with you.

The Mile: People come into our
lives and walk with us a mile, and
then because of circumstance they
only stay a while. They serve a
need within the days that move so
quickly by, and then are gone
beyond our reach, we often wonder
why. God only knows the reason that
we meet and share a smile, why
people come into our lives and walk
with us a mile.

Don't underestimate the impossible, anything is possible if you put your heart and soul to it.

Fading Away: Well don't take life for granted, live all you can, when you can, you never know what tommorow will bring. I mean believing is like a dream, anything can come true, you just have to put your mind to it along with your heart and soul. So like I said above, what's meant to be will always find a way. Just remember to be kind, be Loving, and most of all just be yourself.

It's up to you if you want to persue further or not, I am not one to make a decision for you. Best of luck. :]

Joe. i am having palpitations. where is Auzy? why is he no longer listed on my favourties, or appearing on the 'best critiques' board? if it's something i'll be devestated to hear... don't respond to this.

Fluffy: Auzy left the site at the end of last week due to personal reasons. Waits 2 seconds for devestation to kick in...lol