I just want you all to express your opinion :)

I'm just wondering. Everyone has their ups and downs in their relationships, so how do you all deal with the downs? What gets you through the bad things that happen, what goes through your head that helps you move on and maybe forgive or let go? I'm only asking because sometimes I think about the fights me and my boyfriend have gotten into and I think to myself, why? It wasn't worth it. When I was driving home from work today I thought about my boyfriend and I realized that a lot of the things I get mad at him for are stupid and that I should appreciate all the wonderful things he does for me and how well he treats me and how lucky I am to have him. So I've come to the conclusion that I need to think about what I say sometimes because I love him so much and at the end of the day that's what matters most. So yeah, how do you deal with the downs?....express anything and everything :)

I just remember all the nice things he has done for me and how well he treats me. I, like you, am always getting mad at him for stupid reasons. Like when i know he's joking around...i STILL get mad..its rediculous, i was thinking about this as i was driving home from therapy today, i swear to goodness. haha, driving is a good time to think =p

anyway, i guess also when im upset/mad i just need to let off a few tears and then im usually fine. sometimes i just pent up my emotions too long...but we always talk through our arguments in the end..lol

I cherish every moment, the "ups" & even the "downs".

I have had a few little arguments & a few big ones with my boyfriend. I agree, that they're not worth it. But, do I regret them? No, for then how could we ever learn from them or from each other.

What gets me through & what goes through my head is that I KNOW we're not always going to have the "ups" kind of days; we're not always going to get along, but that we're not always going to be "down" either; that we will get over it & over come it. I know that just because we have "down" days doesn't mean that we don't love each other and that all the "ups" that we have out number the "downs" & will be what we always remember.

As it's been said, love conquers all.

Yesterday I yelled at my boyfriend for a very dumb reason and afterwards when we were alone and he was mad at me for yelling I bursted into tears. I didn't understand why he would hold me and kiss me still even after how I treated him so I asked him why and he said, "I love you."

.... i do that too... sumtime i yell over silly lil things and then i look back and say "wow, well that was so stupid, why did i say that?" and then i relise, we are all human and that the way we react.... lolz we all get stressed and then one lil thing ticks us off and then we blow our heads and we make fools of ourselves... lolz and sumthings that guys do makes us so mad that we just have to go off our heads... even over the lilest thing... but in the end, appolgise and forgive is the best medicne. also icecream, timtams and chocolate has a good effect.

just remember that we are only human and we can not help our selves from being angry. even pple like ned flanders get mad and upset over a lil thing and go off... lolz

well thats what my oppinion is...

Peace
Margii
xx

I know how it is to feel that way. but just thinkn about it this way. who does yout man come home to? who does he show love to and who does he live for. and if all of those answers go back to you, then you know that he loves you