Letting Go

When I say ''letting go'' I'm not referring to family or friends, I'm referring to a significant other; a boyfriend or girlfriend. When I say ''letting go'' I'm not referring to if they pass away or if they cheat on you, I'm referring to if they don't want to be in a relationship with you anymore; if they don't feel the same way about you.

I know a lot of people may say that they know what the right thing to do would be, that they would without a doubt because they truly love them and only want them to be happy. But, is that something that you believe you could do or has it been something you had to do? Please, share your opinion, reasons & your experiences.

Note: This is not a question I am asking for myself. It is just one I ask out of curiosity.

For instance a "boyfriend or girlfriend" situation. They both fall deeply in love, then out of no where one of them don't have that feeling anymore. Why waste your time and try to get that person back. Its not what you want to do, its what you have to do. Unless you want to waste your time.

I agree totally with what you have stated above.
Once the feelings that were there have vanished what more can you do then accept the fact that the same love that once existed is gone. There is no longer that "magic", if i can put it that way.
And being together or even trying to make things work again would seem futile for the only thing that would come out of it is a sense of "why am I doing this" and "what's the point of it all".
Personally I feel that relationships dead are one's that should not be dug up again for that same love may not be resurrected again. But that love can appear only to disappear as fast as it had originally came.

"Is that Tom Brady in your avatar rofl before i share my comment I've always wanted to ask you that because he looks like him anyway."

Haha, I don't know who that is but, no. He's my boyfriend. :)

Yep, it rings a bell now, haha. Do I watch football, yes. States, no. But, my father filled me in since he does. I'm more a player than a watcher. :)

"Gimpy arm"? Don't even go there! Lol. :P Though you can't compare him to a professional athlete, "off the field" he is far from gimpy.

Yet the point gets across, lmao!

No, not at all what I meant. But there is that to add too I guess, haha.