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I'm confused on what to do. i have been married for almost a year but we are having so many problems. we have a beautiful baby girl who is almost 3 months. i just feel like that in love feeling is going really fast. i just am not sure what to do. we have been together for about 15 months and married 9 months. any advice?

I'd say you try to remember the things that brought the two of you together, maybe go to the place you had your first date? Or talk to eachother about loving memories and laugh about some tough times you had in the past that you both went through together. Talking about the future of your child and what things you dream of doing could be good too.

Its very important to spend time with your new baby but it also To me sounds as though you and your husband need some alone time together. Maybe once a fortnight let the grandparents/aunties ect babysit for the evening, and just go out or stay in TOGETHER.
Its so important to talk to eachother about the problems that your having, maybe he is feeling the same and admitting it should be the first step to solving it. Also having a baby is exausting, expeshally for women who, being pregnant for nine months, get an early advance on sleepless nights. Never be afraid to ask for help, even if your husband or even friend takes baby for a stroll so you can get some extra rest, as lack of sleep can make the kindest person tired grouchy and depressed which in turn puts a strain on the most solid relationship. I wish you best of luck hun and I hope things get better soon. sian. xxx