Confused help from anyone please

Okay i'm going to give you as much info as possible.
His name is Alex he's a senior 18 yrs old.
I am 16 yrs old and a sophomore.
Me and Alex have been talking a lot and hanging out with him a lot too and he told me he has feelings for me, I think they are genuine feelings. I really like him and everything, but he's going to college and he said he can't really jump into a relationship right now because of that, but he wants to have a thing or pretty much be together, but not be official so in other words not talk to any other girls except me. My question is should i do this? Is it a bad idea to be that girl but not be official? Anyone please help out...thanks :]

I don't really think there's any problems with this at all you pretty much answered your own question lol.

Sorry, but it sounds like he wants sex and no commitment.

Thanks for all your help..but about the sex thing...when did it ever say anything about being sexual..we haven't even talked about sex at all!

Taylor, sweety your not a dog, don't get
walked.

If it won't be official why waste your time.
Your feelings about this are going to become greater.
leave it b.

Okay sorry. He wants the physical benefits of a relationship and to have somebody waiting for him at all times, without having to commit to that one person.

For you to question this you must be having doubts, wait for a guy who wants you hunny and will commit. x

Alright.. I kinda know exactly how you feel. I was seeing this guy for a few months, but not totally dating because he didnt know if he totally wanted a relationship yet. And he was in college. But he kept telling me that he wanted to be with me and soon we'll get together and he'll bring me to prom and stuff like that. But prolly a few weeks later he totally blew me off. I kept hearing from his sister that he was using me and that he found this other girl and wanted to hook up with her because she was more "mature" because she was in college with him. I went through a total heartbreak but soon got over it.

I think you should just let him go. You'll find someone else, someone you can be with without the distance. I dont want you to get hurt like I did.
:)

Thanks Jaime, said it for me.

Well, If i were you, I'd talk to the guy.
If he has feelings the way you say you think he does, he should look at your point of view and listen and you two should compromise, and if it works, fate meant it to happen. :]

...Don't think so.