Next Step

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    This guy and I basically have a thing we talk all the time, and have both admitted to liking one another. It's been going on for a the last couple months. Although he seems to shy to ask me to hang out or something so we never have since we both go to different schools and never get to see each other. I've known him forever but part of me is nervous that when we do finally hang out it's not going to work. I have no idea what to do with this "thing"

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    If you're nervous about if things won't work out then it's probably not time; you're not ready, to take the "next step". The only way you'll ever know if things will work out is if you give it a chance; give the relationship chance; give him & yourself a chance. That, and if you're willing to give it a chance; risk it.

  • Starlight
    15 years ago

    Seems like you both have something great
    in common

    There's nothing wrong with being nervous. Like
    hopeless romantic said, sometimes you need to
    take risks.

    Do you talk to him often, it does sound like you both
    see each other some times, just pretty much quiet
    when doing so.

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    We talk daily it seems like..
    I said something to him about hanging out this weekend and he's like maybe so i said ok and he goes sarah (his best friend who has a boyfriend) is back and I want to hang out with her.

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    I'm not accusing him of lieing by any means!!.. i just want to know where to take this further.

    Another thing

    We talk daily but I always start the conversation but he always texts back b/c I'm at musical practice

  • SHYSTY23KO
    15 years ago

    I think u should jump in there and ask him to hang out! somethin small like:
    "so when are we gonna hang out?!"
    "we should really hang out!"
    "its about damn time we got together!"
    lol, depending on ur style!

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    I have.. last week I was like when I love you man comes out whe should go to it together. Ok was the response.. comes out tomorrow. I think he should get the hint I want to be around him.

  • Jaime
    15 years ago

    Guys don't get hints, unfortunately. You have to be very specific about what you want. Ex. "There's this movie I want to see coming out on Friday, would you like to go see it with me?" and if he says okay, then specifically say, "Great, I'll meet you there at 7. Is that good for you?"

    If you just hint that you want to go, he probably won't ask you. You have to step up and do it yourself.

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    "You have to step up and do it yourself."

    ^ I don't know whether he wants to take things to the "next step" or not, but if YOU want to take things to the "next step" then YOU are going to have to take it there yourself. Don't expect him to do all the work or get the hint.

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    Ok with senior year coming to an end I have something planned every weekend.. from sr girls lock in to a TEC. So I can never hang out with him, yet he is caring enough to listen to me vent and lets me tell him whatever I want. He'll even stay up till 11:30 on a school night talking to me. So next Friday we don't have school so I'm going to ask if he wants to do something Thursday night together since it's my one night to go out and I would really like to spend it with him. I've been told he's shy around girls and could get a girl but he doesn't do anything because he's too scared.. the girl version of me. So next time I talk I'm going to casually bring up how we don't have school friday... and then see what he is doing Thursday night if nothinbg is planned "I love you man" here we come.

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    Thanks I'm nervous becuase we've been talking less and less because well we run out of things to talk about so I'm nervous of rejection.

  • Fluffy
    15 years ago

    Bring your right foot forward :)

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    I asked him.. he said that he had to help at Parent Teacher Conferences and then he didn't know. His guy friend said that I should come hang out w/ them and I said only if it was ok w/ Danny.

    Shold have brought it up when he called me how many times last night lol

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    We ended things... we want to enjoy our sr yr and we'll see what happens next year :/