LittleMissReality
15 years ago
This guy and I basically have a thing we talk all the time, and have both admitted to liking one another. It's been going on for a the last couple months. Although he seems to shy to ask me to hang out or something so we never have since we both go to different schools and never get to see each other. I've known him forever but part of me is nervous that when we do finally hang out it's not going to work. I have no idea what to do with this "thing" |
Elizabeth
15 years ago
If you're nervous about if things won't work out then it's probably not time; you're not ready, to take the "next step". The only way you'll ever know if things will work out is if you give it a chance; give the relationship chance; give him & yourself a chance. That, and if you're willing to give it a chance; risk it. |
Starlight
15 years ago
Seems like you both have something great |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
We talk daily it seems like.. |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
I'm not accusing him of lieing by any means!!.. i just want to know where to take this further. |
SHYSTY23KO
15 years ago
I think u should jump in there and ask him to hang out! somethin small like: |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
I have.. last week I was like when I love you man comes out whe should go to it together. Ok was the response.. comes out tomorrow. I think he should get the hint I want to be around him. |
Jaime
15 years ago
Guys don't get hints, unfortunately. You have to be very specific about what you want. Ex. "There's this movie I want to see coming out on Friday, would you like to go see it with me?" and if he says okay, then specifically say, "Great, I'll meet you there at 7. Is that good for you?" |
Elizabeth
15 years ago
"You have to step up and do it yourself." |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
Ok with senior year coming to an end I have something planned every weekend.. from sr girls lock in to a TEC. So I can never hang out with him, yet he is caring enough to listen to me vent and lets me tell him whatever I want. He'll even stay up till 11:30 on a school night talking to me. So next Friday we don't have school so I'm going to ask if he wants to do something Thursday night together since it's my one night to go out and I would really like to spend it with him. I've been told he's shy around girls and could get a girl but he doesn't do anything because he's too scared.. the girl version of me. So next time I talk I'm going to casually bring up how we don't have school friday... and then see what he is doing Thursday night if nothinbg is planned "I love you man" here we come. |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
Thanks I'm nervous becuase we've been talking less and less because well we run out of things to talk about so I'm nervous of rejection. |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
I asked him.. he said that he had to help at Parent Teacher Conferences and then he didn't know. His guy friend said that I should come hang out w/ them and I said only if it was ok w/ Danny. |
LittleMissReality
15 years ago
We ended things... we want to enjoy our sr yr and we'll see what happens next year :/ |