Weird phone call

Last night i got a phonecall from a guy that i havent talked to in years. he told me how he still loved me and stuff. but i told him that i was with someone and that i was very happy with the person i was with. he didnt take it well and started cursing and stuff, then hung up on me.

He called right back, i'd say about 5 minutes later. telling me that he was sorry and stuff. but no matter how many times i told him that i was with someone, he still said that he loved me and that he deserved me. but when i did talk to him a long time ago, he just out of nowhere stopped calling me and stuff, so i moved on, now all of a sudden this happens...what do you think happend to make him randomly call me like that?

I wasnt planning on leaving the one that i love to be with him anyways. i am happy with the guy that i am with now. and i have never been happier with my life. i just dont understand why he just randomly called me like that....i find it to be very strange...

Like Beautifully Broken said, "You don't know what you have till its gone" *shrug* he was probably either missing you profusely and didn't realize how much he actually cared for you (Which is his loss :] ) or he was out of luck with girls or something and wanted a girlfriend he thought would come running back to him by saying the three words (I. Love. You.) And probably got all jealous (or angry cos he can't have what he thought he would get easily) and just can't accept the fact that you have moved on.
(just my opinion though) XD

I completely agree with britt and the girls that said you don't know what you've got until it's gone. sounds like he regrets losing you and now wants to ruin your happiness because he isnt happy.

definitely ignore him and just be happy with the one you are with now. =]

Someone who wont accept that you are happy and then he curses you out and hangs up on you..has the guts to tell you he deserves you?
^^
I dated someone who became like that. I'd watch out, cound be a hint of obesession.

He's a douche bag he can't except the fact that ur happy & in love with someonelse & not him it dosent sit right with him.
Loose all contact with I'm asap he don't need him in ur life.

It seems like you dont have feelings for him anymore so i wouldnt even give him any attention. Stay with the one your with!! Be happy you deserve it!!!

Lol everyone said it.. kepe him out of your life... you are happy now.. and that's all that matters

He isnt in my life like that....but he still calls me and tries to talk to me. it has done got so annoying that i have gotten to the point that i dont even answer his calls anymore. I told my boyfriend about him and he told me that if i need him to "step in" then he will. but i am trying to make that my last choice cause the last thing that i want is a fight that my boyfriend is involved in...

^ And not picking up the phone when he calls or returning them is about the only thing you can do, besides telling him one last time to quit or change your phone number. Lol.

Well....he is still calling. and the other night my boyfriend called him back and told him to stop calling. and the guy threatend my boyfriend. and now my boyfriend is afraid to let me out of his sight. i still dont know what was exactly said between the two of them...but it is starting to worry me. No matter how many times i ask my boyfriend what was said. he will always tell me not to worry about it that he will make sure i am ok. and that he will keep me safe...but i am still worried about it

I would really ignore the guy.
He obviously wouldn't be a good boyfriend if he's trying to take you from someone... especially someone you're happy with.
He can't just walk back into your life and exepct you to throw yourself at him. Things don't work like that. He seems like he wants things to go his way and he refuses it to be any different than that.

He sounds like trouble.. I really wouldn't bother with him. I agree with the poster above. Just block this guy's number and live happily with your partner and friends.

It just bothers me that my boyfriend wont let me out of his sight. and when i have to be out of his sight, he calls me quite often to make sure that i am alright. he still wont tell me what was said between the two of them. and i really would like to know so i can know whether or not to take it to the cops or not. it actually really scares me

Just take it to the cops.
If your boyfriend doesn't like that..
Then he can get over it.
You're afraid. And you shouldn't have to be.

Tell him to back off. You've moved on with your life and he should accept that. Did he really expect you to just sit around and wait for him to call you. I THINK NOT!!! Tell him to get over it. He now sees that he lost you and now he wants you back. Don't fall for it. He's a loser.

He sounds like he was drunk or on drugs. If he calls again, curse at him and hang up.

Sounds like a loser.

Sounds to me like he's a stalker!!