What Should I Do?

  • Ashlee
    19 years ago

    Hey my names ashlee im 15. well I guess im writting because i have a problem that i just can't over look anymore. I live at home with both my parents 2 older brothers (18.21), and younger sis(11) ne ways b4 my brothers use to bother me because i was a bit cubby, but now iv lost all my weight yet they still like to bug me about it. even if we get into a lil fight over sumthing small he ends up saying something that has to do with my wieght and he know's how much it hurts me. most night i cry b4 i go to bed because all the things he says...my parents try to do things about it, mostly my dad, seems like my moms on his side.... ne ways im not happy at all here and i dont know what i can do anymore with him bugging me all the time i honestly can't take it!!!! not my lil sis thinks she can say anything to me now i have no respect from anyone at all! please help you dont know how heartbroken i am over my own family calling me names and things. its way worse then what i have wrote, if you could e-mail me at lady_black_knight@hotmail.com or just reply to this thanks =)

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Have you tried talking to your parents? Its their responsbility to make sure you feel safe and comfortable especially in your own house hun. Its sad that your brothers make you feel so miserable about yourself cause no one deserves that - but as my mum said about my brother "Boys will be boys"

    Just realise they are saying these things to you because they know it upsets you and they know they can get a reaction out of you...I gurantee if you ignored them and didn't bite at their taunts they would eventually get bored and find another form of entertainment.

    Goodluck & email me if you need any friendship or support :o)

    Eirisa

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    i agree with eirisa

  • Ashlee
    19 years ago

    hey, thanks guys. Yes i have talked to my parents and they have talked to my brother but heh no help there. I also tryed ignoring them and that didn't work really well. I don't know what else i do i try to avoid them as well.... like a year about it was really bad me n my bro use to get in fights and things. then everything kinda died down but lately its been getting worse like b4... and i jus dunno what to do...