The biggest mistake i ever made!

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Sometimes you gotta lose everything to realize what you have.

^I know, I've been there. My boyfriend and I broke up for a week or two a couple of months after we started dating. I realized I couldn't be without him, so we tried it again and here we are, still together almost 9 months later.

"Can we make it work even with all the implications...?"

^Sorry, I lost my crystal ball. Seriously though, not I nor anyone else can tell you if it will work or not.

My advice is that you'll just have to give it a go. If it works, it works, just don't let anything come between you guys (like fighting, friends starting stuff, other unknown variables, etc etc). If it doesn't, then you'll need to accept the fact and move on.

I know how you feel hun. My ex and I had trouble like that and at the moment we're not togethe r becasue i thought i was losing love for him. so we decoded to see other people for a while and see how that works. i thnk you two just need time to yourself to think about what you both want. and as for his family if they really cared about him they would shut up and let him make his own choices and support him if he's happy. jusy make sure he knows that you love him. and maybe you to should be friends for a little and see what happens from there. hope this helps hun. feel better. Shanik

So he's your first love, Its completely normal to wonder what else is out there. In fact if you don't sate that appetite at one point in your life it WILL and I mean WILL come back to haunt you. I think you should let him live out his relationship with the girl hes with and you yourself do exactly what you left him for. You and I both know you left him because you were not sure if he is the one. You know what!!! he may be the one. But you will always wonder what it will be like to be with someone different. now is your chance, Be with someone different because then if you do get back with him some day in the future you wont kick yourself for at least not see'n what the world has to offer. I give you this advice because I just lost my wife last month. We were together for 10 years, right out of High school. We had never been with other people. Ever. She Finally broke and couldn't help but wonder what was out there. She left me, so she can play the single life. The way I look at it is, if its meant to be for us, she will come back to me. But she was a shell of a human being feeling stuck in the first relationship she found. Now she seems like a whole new person. She is the kind of woman that I actually would like to be with. But the only way for her to be the "Perfect wife for me (if we get back together)
was for her to experience more flavors than just me. All I'm Say'n is that if your boyfriend is your first and only. then you will be BETTER for him and for ANYONE you ever end up with if you have tasted the flavors of love in your life and not settled for your first. like i said it will come back to haunt you. It did for my wife. But if we do ever get back together. we will both be better and stronger. Do you understand what I'm saying.

If you do decide to get back with him, and you want to aviod the Quote un Quote, being together but feeling distant, like your always doing your own things. Men love it when thier women plan things or hint at planned events. Set up a date, a week out. It builds antisipation. Build antisipation for things in your life. Especially sex. let him know in the morning or afternoon that you are going to treat him to something special. You'd be shocked!!!! all day he will do your bidding with a smile. Ne way I could give you advice all day on what men like.

hope all this helps

Randy East

That's what makes a mature relationship. Amen to that! lol Keep your problems with your relationship IN the relationship.