Fallin for someone phobia...

Ok...so i guess i could be one of the hardest people to make fall in love with...or to even go near..romantically...in a way part of me likes it...because i dont often get hurt...but at the same time...im the one hurting others because i feel so careless about what im doing...

Theres only been one guy in my life...who has actually led me to believe we could be in love?
Ever since i was little...i used to like guys..and something tiny about them...would put me off them..and it would give me almost a sick feeling to my stomach to think i even went to go there...but im now sick of this feeling! i hate pushing every guy i kinda like away...especially the good looking ones!!

I used 2 think it was because i new whether hes for me or not...but even the most perfect guys ... who have so much in common and we wud b perfect together .. doesnt work!

I dont no wt to do..and atm all i can think about is my ex! and i dont want to! i want to move on...cos we dont work! .. the guy i want to be with...just isnt right for me :S!

What do i do? Do i have some kind of relationship phobia? Because im tired of being alone

Woohoo future phobia...

Deffinately not a phobia of relationships. I think you have a phobia of being alone. And the fact that you havent found someone you can have a successful relationship with makes you search harder for one because you dont want to be alone. But you are only 17. So how can you expect to find the right guy? I know its hard. I went through the same thing. But patience really is key. Try to find something that keeps you entertained. At some point the right guy will come along. And then you wont even think about it. Don't look for it, but don't avoid it.

I agree with the above comments. You dont have a phobia of relationships, you just arent ready to move on. Give it time. the right guy will walk into your life and you wont be able to find the slightest thing wrong with him to make you want to run. You cant force it, just let your life flow. chill with the girls and have fun. thats what im doin and let me tell ya, its WAY more fun. Its just high school so live it up! :) dont worry about the boys. they have cooties anyways haha jk jk but really, there is nothing wrong with you. you are a typical teenage girl. i hope that kinda helped...