Wanting oppinions..

Okay.. So I'm a little aggervated right now.

Here's the story: Tonight me and my boyfriend were at the skating rink and we were hanging out with a bunch of our friends. Well, there's this one guy who kept flirting/hitting on/hanging all over my boyfriend. The guy is bi and so is my boyfriend.

I don't have a problem with them being bi, but the guy being all over my boyfriend got me kinda jealous. To me, it would be exactly the same thing if a girl was all over him like the guy was.

So I don't know what to do. I've never been in this kind of situation before.. I don't know if I'm just blowing it out of proportion and letting the jealousy get to me, or if I have a valid reason to be slightly upset.

After I got home, my boyfriend called me, I told him how I was feeling and stuff but we couldn't talk very long because he has a phone curfew, but I'm sure we'll talk more about it tomorrow.

I was just wondering if anyone else had been in a similar situation or how they would deal with it.

Britt: That's how I feel about it. And I did talk to him about it but he just saw it as the guy messing around and didn't take him seriously. But anyway, we talked it out and everything.

Sluvious: I don't quite agree with you. If he's with me, I don't want to have to share him with anyone else, regardless if he's bi or not. It would be the same thing if I had to share him with another girl. That just doesn't sit well with me.

Nobody should make you feel upset... you said you talked to your bf, did he understand? have things changed?

i would sugest talking to the mutual friend also - if he is any kind of friend he will back off, but dont just come out with it, do it in a subtle way - ask if he is into anyone, has his eye on anyone at the minuet..

never know - you might find the answers you are looking for.

good luck either way angel,
peace & love
I.B.E

Sluvious: Sorry, I guess I didn't understand. And I'm not sure. I don't know the whole dynamics of being bi... o.o I know that he finds guys attractive and stuff like that, but we've never talked much about it in depth.

I Bruise Easily: That's a good idea. I didn't even think about talking to the other guy. And we did talk about it and he understood and everything. We worked it out.

Amanda, I'm glad someone knows how to put their thoughts/feelings into words!

^What you just said is exactly how I feel about it! ^.^

Glad you sorted it all out angel,

by the way its I BRUISE EASY not.. I BRUISE EASILY..

peace n love.
IBE.

Oops. My bad.

Looks like I missed the party :P

I'm glad you worked it out there dear. Remember, if you ever feel disrespected by him, talk to him. Right away. And if he doesn't understand, then he's a jerk.

Looks like I missed the party :P

I'm glad you worked it out there dear. Remember, if you ever feel disrespected by him, talk to him. Right away. And if he doesn't understand, then he's a jerk.

Thanks everyone. And as an update, things are going great now. We went to prom 6 days ago and it was absolutely amazingly perfect. :D