Not sure what to do?

I've posted a few topics on here about this guy alex..We've been talking for about 3 months now and I hadn't really brought it up to him until lately that I wanted a relationship with him. And what he told me was that it wasn't gonna work with him going off to college and me being at home (incase you were wondering his college is about 2 hours away) and also that were both just really busy right now. I care a lot about him, but all that keeps popping into my head is that if it is meant to be it'll find its way..so do you think its just time to move on? This other guy has been trying to talk to me, but I have been telling him "no..maybe theres still a chance that Alex and Me will end up together" but i'm starting to think that we won't so yeah I'm just curious to what you would do in this situation and what not with the other guy..I'm lost.

Thanks

Sometimes the only thing you can do is go with your gut instinct. If it is meant to happen, it will. If not, you'll know it. If you remain in that mindset that something will happen, you'll be holding yourself back from a lot of things, when already you've claimed that you're 'busy'. You've told him how you feel. By the sound of it, he didn't seem so enthusiastic and used his college distance as an excuse. Either way, my advice to you is leave it be. If the feelings are mutual, then things will run at their own pace.

Long distance is hard though. i see where he's coming from, you'd both have to commit and understand how little you'll see one another

Yeah, i have friends who lived in Texas and Michigan and now are happily married here in virginia

If he is moving away and you are both too busy to talk or see each other it will be hard. Long distance is hard. But if he said that you couldn't be together because of it maybe you should stay friends. And as for the other guy, just see what happens. Don't hold back on the account of one guy but follow your heart not your head.

Britt and James are right. when you spend you time thinking "what if there is still a chance" than you are holding on to one person. While you are waitin for this one person you may not have a chance with, you can be missing out on plenty that could be making you happy.