What does this mean?

My boyfriend of a year and four months broke up with me on april 2nd, didn't give me a reason at all. but yesterday at a track meet, he stopped me and in summary said, he knows i want him back but he doesn't want date ever again but he still cares and wants to be friends and doesn't like seeing me hurt and doesn't want me mad at him.... && then asked me for a hug and we hugged and he said take care of yourself, to me that all sounds like there could still be hope of getting back together, even though he said he didn't want to, but it doesn't make sense that he would say he doesn't want to but then say he still cares and wants to be friends and doesn't want me hurting or mad......

A lot of people don't like seeing people hurt, and maybe he does still care but doesn't mean he wants you back. if you can't handle a friendship, leave him alone

You can care about someone and still not want to be with them. It sounds like he likes and respects you as a person, but doesn't think that you should be a couple. (Or, perhaps he's just trying to make the situation more comfortable for him.) If you're fine (really fine) with being friends (and only friends), then give it a go. But if you wouldn't be able to put romantic thoughts out of your head for a while, then I think it's fine to take some time away to get your own space.

He told me the reason he broke up with me because i accused him of cheating which i DID NOT do, he heard a rumor and believed it. and when we were together his parents were really strict and back in november they took his phone and said he wasn't allowed to call me and that rule was still in effect when we broke up so the second reason for him breaking up with me was i never called him.. which is unfair because i didn't know i was still allowed to call him, i thought we weren't allowed to talk at all.... it's a very confusing situation and it's getting harder and harder on because i just recently lost my grandad and there's just too much stress on top of breaking up.

^^True^^ All of it said above. It sounds like if he doesn't believe you then something must have happened before were you may have accused him of cheating. there is a reason he didn't trust and and after a year and 4 months you figure he would at least talk to you about it right??

Yeah, but we've honestly never had any trust problems, like there's nothing that's happened, like i said before, it's a very confusing situation and i'm totally lost and it's just very hard not being able to talk to him about it and at least settle everything and walk away on good terms....

If you had never had trust problems than he probably would have talked to you first before believing what it was others have told him. because him not talking to you about it is a sign of not trusting you to tell the truth if he were to bring it up.

U would ask him sit down and talk to him To me he broke up w you just for friendship I agree you can still Care for someone but some things you have to let go be friends but I'd it hurts to much to be friends then I wouldn't take a girls night out I've been through it all trust me love sucks but have faith