What do you think?

My boyfriend of a year and four months broke up with me about a month ago... and now he's dating a girl that he's been best friends with for about 7 or 8 years and when i was with him, he always told me and even promised/swore he'd never date her because he didn't like her like that & the same girl is also the biggest reason we broke up (because someone told him i accused him of cheating on me with her, which i didn't do!)..... i've talked to him since the break up & before he got with her and he told he still cared about me..... but now that he's with her... do you think my chances are gone?..... but my mom & are people are telling me, they don't think it'll last since they've been close friends for so long..... please help.....

My opinion? Move on, mate. You shouldn't have the time to wait around for anyone.

I dont think you should still be with him even if he did leave her. because if he can leave you after a year and a few months just like that once for someone else he'll do it again. And im not gonna lie when a guy and a girl are best friends i honestly think one of three things is goin on:

1.The guy has feelings for her but the girl doesnt feel the same about him or just doesnt know how he feels about her...

2.The girl has feelings for him but just the guy doesnt know or doesnt feel the same way

or

3.Something went on with them before and they have GROWN from that and BECOME best friends from it.

And i say this from experience...i think your better off without him because if he does leave her and gets with you if he chooses to STAY friends with her IT WILL BE IMPOSSIBLE for your relationship tp last becuase your always gonna be afraid of losing him again or him cheating on you with her. Im sure its hard and if you need a friend to talk to feel free to PM me =] i wish you the best of luck hun

Thanks so much...
i've been trying to get through this one day at a time and i really thought that with time, i'd be okay.... but the truth is... it hurts more and more everyday..

i know that i need to just move on and not worry about him or her but i just don't know how.... it's all too confusing and hurting me way too much.

Yeah i know how it feels to love someone so much and have to except the fact that its time to move on...but you gotta remember 'time heals all wounds'

Just take it one day at a time and if you wanna cry then cry but try not to sulk in your sorrows of losing him. Just call up your friends and go out and hang out with them and have a great time. try and keep him off your mind for a bit and with time, tears, friends and family you will EVENTUALLY get over him.

And you are VERY welcome =]

I will try my hardest but the saddest part about all of this is; i lost my very best girlfriend in the middle of him breaking up with me and my grandad dying (all in the same week) it all hit me at once and there's not too many "friends" i trust enough to talk to or really hang out with anymore.... i know that sounds horrible and i probably sound like i have no life but i just don't know...