players

alright this is kinda of a question for the guys but...girls if youve been in this situation how did it turn out for you....well i love my baby but im terrified of whats going to happen between us....my brohter in law is a "ex-player" and he says that my b/f has been doing all the tricks in the book and that he is just playin me and using me for a peice of ass....i mean he dresses like a thug and is in jail and stuff but...i cant see him wanting to use me for a peice of ass...weve had the disccusion and he said maybe we shouldnt be together if you think that and i said well i dont want that but i dont want to be jsut a peice of ass and he said your not....im terrified of being played...any suggestions

does that mean that you think he is playin me?...oh yea and also my brohter in law said is...alright well i cheated on him and he said that if he really loved me he would have dumped me he would of been hurt bad! but since he didnt dump me it means he doesnt care...pussie is pussie....i think that if you love someone you will work through anything you will make it work....????confused

Well pussy is pussy, and the thing that guys cant get over is when another guy has touched their pussy. Guys have ownership of their girl, and they have a weird mentality that girls cant really understand. Its not like they are just hurt when you cheat on them, its like their property has been violated, so I would say that if he loved you before it is very likely that now he may not see you the same way and will never be able to love you fully again. He may even have a vandetta against you and try to hurt you by cheating on you with other people and leading you on. However if he is in jail he probably needs emotional support, so your situation is hard to disect. I dont know this guy, so I cant tell you, however if you are insecure it is for 2 reasons, you should be because he is playing you, or because you have guilt for cheating on him and you cant get over it, because you created insecurity in the relationship that will never heal. Read my poem "Holes to the Heart," or something like that. It describes this situation, kind of.

Hope this helps

This topic is my inspiration, see: For Sex, by me.

Lol. Ok im going to start keeping my thoughts to myself... I think I give too much advice...

Ignore me now haha

uhh im very confused ha ha ha but you do have a point....keep giving advice we need more people like you guys....dont try and buter it up...just give the staright answer thanks...

more than likely if you have that feeling of just being used for a piece of ass then you are...sorry to say. Kaitlyn pretty much said everything else on my mind lol...good luck tho!

There are of course exceptions to every generalizations. I dont mean EVERY guy is like this, but this is something all girls need to watch out for, because the players ruin the integrity of all the nice boys and men out there.

Girls just watch out for yourselves until you know who is full of shit and who is for real.

I agree Kaitlyn

Kami I wont bother responding because I think shes covered it all