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I've been dating this guy for about 9 months now (well we broke up twice), anyway, lately everything has been just fine. We were planning this family reunion and he was comming. I don't live with my mother and she was commig down for it to. I told her that I wanted to invite him to church.but then she we all judgemental on him. Calling him a thug and everything beyond it. This aint the first time she done it she had done it with an ex I had before I moved out. Sometime I think that my mother doesn't want me to date. But then she gives me boys that she like. I don't like them but the guy Im with I love hime dearly, but Im afraid to bring him around my mother again. I try to talk to her but she jumps down my throat about boys...what should i do. somebody please help me....

You're 15, parents rarely like the people we choose to date, especially if they're different, at least she cares. If she really has no reason to dislike or mistrust him, eventually she'll come around once she sees you're happy and he is respectful.

You're 15 give thing some times. You say you don't live with her maybe she is overreacting because she just wants to make sure you are safe. Parents do that you know. Care about their kids... You're too young to be worrying about choosing side or anything between family and boyfriend. Not that that is what you said but it kind of comes with the problem...

Don't ignore her anyway. Show that you appreciate her concern, as she is your mother, but that you can't base your choices on her opinions. If he's a nice guy well then it'll work out. Just be happy you have a mother who cares enough to have an opinion on who you date.

Ok....
1st its your life, and you can date whomever you please, BUT always take your parents into consideration, is there a reason why maybe she may say he is a thug?
Does he hang out with the wrong crowd or things like that...

Tell her you really like him and you would really like it if she would at least be nice to him...

Because mothers have an instinct that no one else has... and believe me... 99% of the time, when it comes to love, they are right... becuase Ive been through it with my mom...

Good Luck!!

My mom loved the last guy I dated more than I did lol when we ended our 10 month long relationship for good she was all hurt with me for a long time and kept bothering me to hang out with him and try to get him back. Be glad that's not your mom lol.

Mothers can sometimes be way to protective, sometimes not a bad thing. But sometimes a good thing. I think you should try to see it from her point of view first, and if you still don't agree, then invite him.