So this guy. . .

So i've been 'crushing' (if that's the term you want to use) on this guy for quite awhile now, but was so scared of rejection that i didn't tell him until just recently. Well turns out, he was "talking" with someone at the time, so i just layed off. Well things didn't work out with them, and about a month later (couple days ago) he asked me to come over and hang out. I did and we had an awesome time, we talked, watched a movie, and he kissed me goodnight. Sounds great, but here is the thing. I keep getting told (and i kinna figured) he is not really the 'serious relationship' type guy. Or at least he hasn't been in the past. So do you think I'm just wasting my time? We are not officially dating right now, but we are "talking". I'm not getting my hopes up too high, cause I don't wanna be hurt. But should I even try at all? Or should I find someone else? I really like him, and he seems to like me. But I am unsure of the best thing to do. Any advice is appreciated =)

I think u should just continue 2 'talk' cuz u might b 'that one' that he WILL b in a serious relationship with..keep ur guard up tho just in case so u dont get hurt untill he is officially ur bf...if u dont at least give it/him a chance u'll always wonder 'wat if'

I can relate to this subject strongly.Before I started dating my boyfriend, we "talked" for about a month.So of course I was asking my friends about him.They all told me he was a "player" so to speak and never stayed with a girl for over a month.They told me he wasn't even close to the type of guy to settle down and get serious.But I didn't let that stop me.Now we've been together for almost a year.He wasn't any where near the type of guy that everybody said he was.

It just boils down to if you and him are meant to be togeter.People are willing to change for the people they love or care about.

So give him a chance.If it doesn't work out, then it's for the best.

Talk about it with him. Maybe you can be the one to change that he isn't the serious relationship kinda guy. maybe not but you never know. Take your chances lifes too short to watch it go by

Thanks, but I guess everything turned out like everyone said it would. He hasn't said anything to me since I saw him, and he hasn't responded when i've tried to contact him. It's kind of upsetting, but I guess at least I had some idea