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Okay,here's the problem...

A couple of years ago,my finace[Hunter] && my best friend[Linsey]had sort of a fling.They never dated or anything like that.It was pretty much just a "friends with benefits" situation.I didn't even know him then.Now we've been together for almost 9 months && we're engaged && have a baby on the way.

But here's the thing that tears me apart && really upsets me.Linsey && Hunter still talk && she flirts with him a whole lot.Plus every single time I talk to her she says something about her && Hunter's past hook ups.I haven't said anything to her yet even though it really upsets me.I've just been bottleing everything up && just taking it.I can't take it anymore.

I don't know what to do!I don't want to lose my best friend because of all of this...but I can't deal with her even mentioning Hunter's name because I know that she's still attracted to him.I'm afraid that sooner or later I am going to get so mad && go off on her && ruin our friendship.She's been by my side through so much && has helped me through everything.But I'm not going to sit around && listen to her just run her mouth about hooking up with my fiance.

I don't know what to do...
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"she flirts with him a whole lot.Plus every single time I talk to her she says something about her && Hunter's past hook ups."

They have a history and obviously she is okay with rubbing your nose in it, if you don't like it, speak up, if she is really your friend she will get it and if not kick her to the curb. Your bf should be drawing lines as well.

^ She pretty much said it.

If she's really your friend, she'll understand if you don't want to listen to her talk about whatever they used to have.

If she is a real friend, she will understand when you tell her to sto saying all of tha.
She should understand that you are engaged and have a baby on the way...
It just shocks me, what kind of friend would rub that in your face...
I think she may be jealous that you are with him because as a friend, I would never do that, actually it would be akward to tal to my friend, or the guy after everything....
Thats what i think....

You really need to tell her how you feel. Its not okay that she's talking about him like that and a part of her must at least know that it upsets you. What shes doing is mean and there isn't any reason for it. I think you've got to tell her that its inappropriate and if she can't deal with that then she's not much of a friend at all.

Thanks everbody.I talked to her about it last night and she apologized for everything.She honestly didn't think it bothered me as much as it did.But I told her to look at it from my point of veiw and she understood because if it was the other way around,she wouldn't want me talking about or to her boyfriend.

And speaking of significant others,I can't see Hunter right now because he's away for a while so I wrote him a letter asking him not to speak to her anymore.I haven't got a response yet but am expecting one in a couple of days.

Glad she understood. :) Best of luck with him. :)