Getting over a serious relationship.

Well I had a boyfriend that I loved, but things didn't work out. We tried being friends for a while, but it sort of hurt me, because I still had feelings for him, and being friends just didn't cut it. I found that just not having him around me or to talk to did me good, because it gave me a chance to get over him and move on. Maybe I'll talk to him again, but getting him out of my system really helped. It may not be the same for every1 though.

-Rach

i feel you man ... my ex-gf dumped me... so she could be with good looking and rich boys.. i felt used and played.. haha sad world huh?

School... a torrid time enough without the added throes of women!

This is going to sound stupid, but mix things up. Get a completely new hair cut or buy a new cd (a band you've NEVER heard) or both... Just do something entirely new that you never did with her.

It'll help a lot, trust me.

Bert

I can relate to a lot of you...Me and my boyfriend broke up, almost 2 weeks ago, and we were together for 9 and a half months...I'm the one suffering, we were going to be friends, but then I found out he had been lying to me, so now I don't talk to him, I have him deleted off my msn list, and blocked so he cant talk to me, it helps a bit, but there are still times were I break down and undelete him just to see if hes online or not...you just need lots of support from your friends, and to escape the memories...I can't because it feels like we did everything together and talked about everything so everything does remind me of him...but I got friends to help me, and I have love. My heart feels shattered, but it will be repaired. I wish you all luck on recovering...Try to stand strong, it will be the best in the end. xxxxx

-Mortalidaga
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It's definitely extremely difficult. I don't know if what I did was the best thing to do....

xoxZoexox

The best thing to do is to try and find someone new. you never really get over your first true love...and yes...its hard to try...but just think of all those other lovely people out there you could be with...why waste your time on someone you know doesnt want you. im sorry its harsh...but its true!