AGRH HES DRIVING ME INSANE

Ok so my ex and a friend of mine john has been coming over and we just lay on my couch cuddling and kissing but thats all we always have fn together but like pillow fights and stuff and he told me he still has feelings for me
i do aswell i always have
so yeah everythings great but then i go to my auntys comletely cut off from civilisation i come back
hes righting one word sentences on msn and take 5 mins to reply i asked him what he was up to and he said nm wwhen i said you seem busy all he worte was lol why?
then i told him he was being weird and he goes ok

then when he leaves he goes im off now hun xx ily

now im confused hardly talk to me for 3 hours he was on and then writes that when he goes i know hes not shy we never have been around each other wth is going on

Its just msn. Trying to analyze the way he talks to you on the computer is useless. He could be busy, distracted, preoccupied, having technical difficulties, whatever. Wait to talk to him in person before you start going crazy.

Also, he's your ex, and you still fool around with him. The odds are pretty darn good that he's just using you anyways.

Ok let me explain further we always knew we would end up very close friends we hang out with the same people and weve always been pretty close.. what happened was him and his mate haydon came here and me and john were having a pillow fight and then haydon had to go to work so johns like ill stay here and haydon left and ways we were playing around a bit and i was trying not to get close to him but the he grabbed me ( not in a sleezy way and just held me for a while we were looking at each other so i turn away and then he turn my face back to his and he kiss me

i thought i was over him till he came over i know we wont stop being friends
we only broke up last time because a good friend(well i thought so at the time) told him id been cheating on him and told me he'd been cheating on me it wasnt till after we broke up we realised what jess did she had always liked him

Oh and in aussie the legal age of concent is 16
my mum is also not stupid enough to think that im not going to have relations with someone

Lol Amanda I think our dad's went to the same school

You post was pretty hard to read and some parts made no sense. If you want to know what's up, ask him, point blank. Maybe he doesn't need your attention right now. Either way, playing games is useless. We can't tell you what's up with him.

I agree. Just ask him, if you don't feel comfortable asking face to face (which many people don't) just ask him over msn.

I know how you feel, my ex tried to kiss me on our prom night while we were broken up, i was so close to kissing him and if i had it would have made it harder to let him go, but it's always possible.

Just ask him and if he doesn't want to be together, let him go and it'll get better=]

Like everyone else said, you need to ask him what's up. You're not going to get anywhere unless there's communication on both sides. Otherwise you're left here asking strangers what's up and he's out doing who knows what. I think I can relate a lot to what you're talking about right now. I was going out with my boyfriend for about two years, then we broke it off for three months and then we started talking again and now we're back together. The first couple of days were great but then I went out of state to visit my dad's for the summer and now he's becoming distant. Things change when there is a break up, and it may never be the same, but it's all up to you and if you want to work for it. If he's going to sit there and play games with you I advise you to run away and never look back. It'll be easier.