Really need a outside opinion

  • devon
    15 years ago

    So i have this old friends that i havent seen since i was 7 (now 17) and we see each other for the first time in year. We say hi and then she slaps me in the back kinda hard. Then it goes on to playful fighting, looks, and words between us for at least 2 hours. I dont if it means she likes or not, I'm confused. I want your opinions before i ask her myself.... thanks.

  • devon
    15 years ago

    Yeah sorry mistake i havent seen her since i was seven

  • Nobodys Hero
    15 years ago

    It's possible she likes you =] she seems quite comfortable around you, but i agree with the person above you should just ask her

  • She Loves Me She Loves Me Not
    15 years ago

    Playful fighting suggests she's very comfortable with you. The only way you'll know for certain is if you ask her. But in time, because you've only seen her for the first time in ages. So don't rush into things and enjoy the time with her.

  • Captivat3d
    15 years ago

    Hmm, she could just be a flirt...but yeah, she's clearly comfortable around you. I think you should give it some time and maybe by then, there will be clearer signs because there's really not enough info to know if she does like you or not.

    Or, you could just ask her.

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    I think it's been established that she's comfortable around you. But being comfortable around or with another person doesn't necessarily mean that they like you in that way (I assume you mean in more ways than just as friends), for some people they can easily grow comfortable to & make friendships with others. She could still just think of you as a friend and, even after all the years that has passed between the two of you, is still comfortable with you as one. For some people it's easy for them to maintain or reconcile old friendships.

    But then again, maybe she does like you more than as a friend and her playful fighting, her looks & exchange of words is flirting.

    We personally do not know her, so we can only assume as much from her from what you've told us. In that case, it can go either way. Like many have already said, the simplest way to find out is to ask her. But as someone else has said, you've just met up with her after how many years of being apart, don't rush it. She could be offended or worse.

  • devon
    15 years ago

    Thanks for all your help. And I've decided just to go for it and ask wish me luck