He Had No Reason;

I got together with a guy I've known for a few years on the 26th of June. I really liked him. I mean, he met my entire family, I met his, we hung out and saw each other almost every single day... I was good to him. We didn't argue once, I wasn't mean to him, he wasn't rude to me, I never cheated on him, nothing at all.

Then the other day we go to the movies and we went with a few other girls. But they were girls that were both of our friends and Idk. Things just felt weird. The next day he came over for a lil bit but barely kissed me, anything. & we would kiss a lot. The day after, I went to work. He always comes and visits me whenever I work but that day he didn't. He just txted me saying,"hey I'm home in bed call me later". So I txted him asking if he was alright and he said ya. I'm good friends with his sister and asked her too and she said his stomach had been hurting all day and didn't feel good. I asked him later if I had done anything, if everything was okay between US. He said yeah things were fine.

So I let it go. Today he hadn't called me, txted, nothing.. it was 2 pm. That is really unusual so I finally sucked it up and called him. He sounded HORRIBLE. He said he had been sleeping all day, felt so bad, hadn't been doing anything, etc. So I told him I'd let him go back to sleep and he said he'd call me later.. everything seemed fine. Was calling me babe, baby, all that.

So a little over an hour later he txts saying,"I don't want to hurt you but I'm not ready for a relationship I'm just not sorry." I've txted him, asking for him just to talk to me about it, called him, everything.. no answer. None. His little sister said he was just being an ass and she'd talk to me when she was done swimming :/

It's just.. really really hard. I mean I put so much effort into making him happy and he dumps me for no reason. His ex girlfriends have all been AWFUL to him and I treated him so much better than all of them. His family and sister even told me themselves that I'm the best girlfriend he's ever had. I just... Idk. It really hurts. I don't understand why he thought we should break up :'[

If clingy means hanging out with him whenever he asked if we could hang out, then I guess I'm clingy.

Yeah, I think it was a bad idea to go to his little sister and ask her questions about him. If he broke up with you, then he wanted to, I mean, his sister wouldn't really know anything about it. If he didn't come to your work to visit you ONE day, well...not everyone has the time to do everything you expect them to do. I think he might've needed space and just because everyone else thinks your the best gf he has ever had doesn't mean he thinks the same and plus, it doesn't matter what those people think. If it wasn't meant to be, then it's not meant to be. You can't do anything about it, you just have to move on because you can't make someone be with you, when they don't want to be.

Uhh. Okay so my phone is really getting on my nerves.

Anywayss...

Whem someone makes it a routine to call or ask for calls, to hang out or not too...the other person becomes immune to it. Which is understandable. Maybe triggers and all that weren't established between the two just yet, how everr...it wasn't clingy at all to think something was up when he didn't call or answe any of his calls. And she was right. The clues for the whole day were apparent that he was planning to break up and just beating around the bush. Maybe her description as to what happened wasn't explained thoroughly in depth to understand better...but the clues were there. And she freaked.

And she had every right too. People need to know things. Doesn't it bother you...if someone has something to tell you...and you can feel it, you can tell...and they go so long without saying anything that you suspect...and that he is making it clear at the same time...disguise it. By saying he had a bad day or that he's tired.

Personally. I think they'll get back together.

:)

opinions were stated. That's all i got to say.

I totally agree with space though. It's an essential to any relationship. I promise

It seems that he have already decided what he wants to do that's why he broke up with you,and you can do nothing about that so just try to forget all about him and move on.

Good luck^^

Ok, I dont get why these guys are calling you clingy, from my point of veiw, you say that you guys were txting all the time, and everything right, he used to come visit you at work, all that great stuff, you worried becouse something thats normal didnt happen. That dosnt make you clingy really, just normal. If out of no where I didnt call my mom for a month, and I call her once a week at least, she would worry about me right off the bat, shed get a hold of my chain of command to find out why her son hasnt called or emailed her. Its normal for you. Anyways, I think his only problem was that at your age a relationship, no matter how good it is or anything, cant last forever. thats the harsh truth, hes just not that into you anymore, and rather you want to reconize it or not, he had a great reason for breaking up with you, Hes in his teens and dosnt want a relationship anymore, its really that simple.

^^^ this guy above knows exactly what he is talking about. I agree, you are not clingy at all. And you are young, don't worry about finding "the one" right now. Go out and try out all kinds of flavors (guys) then decide which one is for you. You have ur whole life ahead of u so go and make the best of it
best wishes,
Meg