Is he real or using me??

Oka so my cousin gave this guy my number cuz he siad he saw a picture of me and thought i was cute or whatever. Anyways so he started texting me and was really nice and everything and then one day out of nowher after like 3 days of texting me he went off on me saying to f off and i was a b* and needed to leave him alone cuz he was trying to get back wit his ex. so i didnt talk to him for a few weeks and he text me like hey im so so sorry i really am and bleh bleh bleh. he wanted to meet me so he came to my high school's soccer game with me and ever since he has been texting me like oh my you are so amazing i have never had so much fun with another girl and you are so beautiful and it goes on and on and on. but idk weather i should give him a chance or not.. please help me

Well, if you must know what I think, I think after trying to get back with his ex and failing, you're the next best thing. My opinion: kick him to the curb. Find someone who is only interested in you, from the start, and who doesn't want to play games.

Thats what i was thinking and i told him that. He says he is oh so sorry and on and on and on about how amazing i am and how if he would have met me before he would never have acted like he did because before i was just a number to him and now that we met he thinks im so amazing. But still i cant help but think that im 2nd best like you said..

Don't let him take advantage of you. I've been played like this before... it's not worth the hurt, believe me... I completely agree with Forever, don't settle for second best. He doesn't sound like the most believable guy... you need to tell yourself that you're worth more than he takes you for, so he's not worth stressing about. Hope everything turns out okay.

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I would assume the point of getting your number was to get to know you because physically he saw something in you that he liked. To then say you were just a number and be out and out rude, just shows his character is shady. Maybe he should have taken the time to see how amazing you were before he freaked on you for no reason. Not worth your time in my opinion.

I think he was using you untill he settels matters with his ex,so when he failed he decided to move on to you.

I think this guy is an opportunist!!!

It would be better to leave him and don't give him any chance,because sooner or later he will do it again.

Good luck^^

He's using you as a second best, maybe even to get his ex jelous.

when a guy leaves you and comes back , when he had a realationship before its usually cuz the first one didnt work out the way planned, so he's just settling with you, cuz he knows you like him.
everyone said it

you deserve better.

You've only met him once, and he's going on and on saying all of these wonderful things.. Words are cheap. People are deceitful and use others.

And I agree with everyone else. Seems like he's coming back to you as a second best.

As far as it sounds & as far as I can tell, he's using you. But then again, only you can allow yourself to be used.

If he'd been talking to me before & suddenly, for no reason, spoke to me in that matter (to f off & call me a b****), I wouldn't give him the time of day. He could have simply told you that he didn't think whatever relationship you had would work out, that he wanted to just be friends or that he wants to try to work it out with his ex, there was no need for that kind of language or the insults.

So, he said he wanted to try to get back together with his ex. Well, obviously, now that he's come back to you & apologizing, that plan of his failed. It appears he's using you as a rebound or to make his ex jealous.

You've only met once. All that talk of, "...oh my you are so amazing i have never had so much fun with another girl and you are so beautiful..." is just to butter you up. Don't let him sweat talk you; don't let him take advantage of you.

Find someone who wants to be with you, who'll treat you right & who won't play mind games with you. Don't let yourself be used.

Leave him in the dust, he told you off, tried to get with ex, failed and crawled back, hell no. Kick wile hes down and leave him crying. Hes an idiot and you can do so much better then that. He TXT you first, then told you to stop texting him and called you a b***h and to f**k off, burn him, then saaid sry i blah blah blah, leave him down and out, thats what he deserves.

"Ha ha, no he's not using you, only you can allow yourself to be used......."

^ Ah, yes, that is so very true. Only you can allow yourself to be used & only you can make yourself look like the biggest fool.

Thank all of you for your responses..
so i told him that i didnt want anything to do with him cuz i wasnt going to be second best.
he cried on the phone with me and told me that he had fallin in love with me!!! like, WHAT!? lol
then i told him he has no idea what love is
anyways, thanks for all your opinions :)

^ Good for you, for not falling for one of the oldest tricks in the book.

Lol yea its a learning process.. i got lucky till now. all the boys in my school are sweethearts and i have grown up with them.. this one was the first guy that was sketchy, and didnt go to my school either..

Good for you, glad to hear you took our good advice, dude was an ass/

Seems to me you came second...he wanted his ex but since it didnt work you were the next best thing...tell him to go and find yourself a real man :]