Really confused here...help.

Ok, so me and this guy dated last summer for a couple of months. we started talking a little but again like last week. i started the convo cuz i was thinking about him alot and wanted to see how he was doing. so we catch up and he tells me that he thinks he still likes me. i tell him the same thing and we started to date again. the next day he texts me saying that he was sorry but he didnt think we should date bc he still has feelings for his ex.(they havent seen or talked to each other in months cuz i guess her mom is real strict and monitors everything she does..) anyways i send him a pic of me....nothing nude or anything like that...just a sexy pic with tight clothes on...he said he liked it and wanted more so i did....not even 24 hrs later he said no offense but i must ask you to stop bc i have a gf....whats his deal?...idk if he rly has a gf or he was lying but i really do want him back...someone help!

Ok, I always have to be the cold hearted a** about things, but its what I do best. Move on, if hes lying it means hes really not interested in you anymore, if hes telly you the truth, hes really not interested in you anymore. thats the way it works hun, Im sorry if that hurts, but its the truth. I know you want him back, and i really do understand that, but life sucks. I wont tell you your being stupid, becouse emotions are an almost uncontrolable exsistance of their own, we cant help the way we feel, but at the same time we can control what it is we do with our feelings. It wont be ez, and you wont enjoy it, but its better then putting yourself trough hell fighting for something that isnt there. So yeah. Hope my advice helps

I think he doesn't know what he wants!!he is quite indecisive!!!

He is not trustworthy,he always comes up with something,at first he said he loves you then he still has feeling for his girlfriend then.....

It's advisable to get over this guy and forget him,he will really give you hard time.

I completely agree with Spc Ernst here. It sounds like he is playing games, and if that's the case, you don't -need- him in your life. He'll only be bad for you. I know how painful it can be, but it's better to move on now so you can start healing rather than linger and hope, and maybe even get hurt more.

Thank you so much for your advice. i guess i kinda knew the answer already, i just dont wanna believe it, ya know? and another thank you for not telling me how stupid i am how can i not see it type of answer, too. i guess i've been so caught up in him and falling for him so much, that i didn't wanna see what he was doing.

and i am glad that you were honest and some say being a cold hearted ass, but i'm glad you were telling me what i need to hear and not what i want to hear.

i did send him an email asking what was his deal. it probably wont do any good, but it kinda helped me a little bit through the healing process...

thank you again for your advice.