Does He Really Want A Relationship?

  • Krista
    15 years ago

    Okay so there's this guy. We talked before the school year ended, and he said he didn't want a summer relationship since he'd be busy with baseball and baseball camp and camping. We had said something about this school year, and left it at that. He said he didn't want to hurt me by not being around.
    So here's my question.
    Do you think he actually wants a relationship? I haven't talked to him all summer...
    If anyone could give me their opinion that'd be great. :)

    Thanks.

  • Starlight
    15 years ago

    Why don't you ask him that yourself.

  • Clown
    15 years ago

    No offence, but sence this is either a middle schooler or a high schooler, he probly forgot all about it by now.

  • Starlight
    15 years ago

    You deserve better, i promise.

  • Krista
    15 years ago

    I'm going to be a junior this year, and he'll be a senior. I've known him since seventh grade. And right now I can't ask him since he's at baseball camp right now...

  • Captivat3d
    15 years ago

    Hmm, you can't really tell right now. Well, if he hasn't contacted you AT ALL the whole summer then I doubt he's even thinking about you. Couldn't he possibly text you or something? I think you should just wait it out and see what happens. No need to rush and the school year is almost starting.

  • megan
    15 years ago

    I doubt it but wait till this school year and see what happens, i mean i know ive been to volleyball camps where phones werent allowed. if you like him enough to wait, then wait, but if not, who cares? you're still a kid, have fun while you can, thats what im doin ;)

  • forevertobeart
    15 years ago

    Well, on one hand I'm sure he's really busy with all of his summer activities, but on the other hand, I don't see how hard a simple text or message on the computer would be to squeeze in. That being said, it seems he's too busy for you, and when you finally do see him at school and he starts getting close with you again it would almost sound like he's only interested when it's convenient for him, and he doesn't want to put in any effort otherwise. I should also add that since he's going to be a senior, I wouldn't get too serious with him. He's probably going off to college, meaning he won't be around even more! Let him go, date around, have fun. :)