Ex-Boyfriend issues...Advice?

So me and my ex havn't dated for over 2 years, but were really close. He recently started talking to me. In which he asked to hangout, during our conversation he pointed out that were both single and looking for someone. I still like him but i don't know if i should. Plus he keeps giving me mixed singles, so should I tell him or wait it out?

I assume you are ex's for a reason. Just because you are both single doesn't mean you should be going out and suggesting such to me would be kind of insulting, almost like "well we don't have anything better going on so lets kill time" Only you can decide what is best for you.

Hmm, it's really all up to you. You do have to think about why you guys broke up in the first place because that issue will probably come back. If you wanna give a shot, then go ahead.

Dont hurt yourself on this one really, its simple. Just tell him, its not mixed singles, he WANTS to be with you but the issue is that he dosent know that you want to be with him, so what you call mixed singles is just that he lets the fact that he wants to be with slip once in wile thats all. He dosnt want to scare you off so he trys to stop himself from giving off that impression, pluse him pointing out the single thing is the BIGGEST hint in the world. He still likes you, you still like him, its not complicated at all. Go for it.

^ I disagree. You guys are ex's for a reason. You never know what could happen. You guys broke up for a reason. Why go through that again? I took back a guy four times and the same thing kept happening. He kept hurting me. Don't make the same mistake I did. Be smart. If you want to date go ahead but you guys are ex's for a reason.

The worst thing about exs is they know oll the buttons to push to mek you foll for them oll over again. they know wat meks you laugh and they will use it to gain their way back into your heart. so if you not ready to fall for the ex oll ova again,run as far away from him as you kip unless of cos if you want to re-write the mistakes you guys made

You also have to look at the fact that its been 2 years and we dont know why they broke up, iv broken up with a girl simply becouse I couldnt handle a relationship at that time. You never fully understand a situation, i understand a concearn for all the why this and why that and yall broke up for some reason, plus, i know for a fact that a person can change, so whats the big deal if they try it out again, i mean in the end its her choice and all, but personaly, i think i would try.

Oh. Oh. Ohhhhhh! This reminds me of a Dr. Phil episode! :)

Okay it's true that he's your ex for a reason... but your whole problem revolves around WHY you two broke up in the first place.

Dr.Phil Advice:
1. You have to trust each other! If he's going after other girls while he's with you... yeah. Don't do it. :|
2. I doubt he's a beater - but if he is! Don't walk into the relationship. It may just be infatuation.
3. The lo-o-ove was gone! Well it HAS been 2 years. If this is the reason, I'd say hang out for a while as friends and see how it goes. Don't run head first back into a failed relationship. :)

Yeah that's it for my advice. Good luck! <3

-Athena... thinking of changing my name to something with a muse? O_O

That's hard... cause this is where life goes on. I can be a bitch right now with this, but I won't try to... my ex broken up with me, and it hurt me which I'm still healing my heart. I mean there's lust or love... you two might just want to have someone close to talk to, hold, kiss, etc... showing affection to each other but is it with feeling or not?? Everything is good now as friends just think how it would be if you two were together!?!

-wait it out

It has been almost two months since I broke up with my last boyfriend. we dated for about eight, or almost nine months. I'm still trying to find ways to get over that; or rather move on. he's making it impossible, by saying stuff behind my back and giving me dirty glances. honestly, if he were ever to crawl back...I would tell him to take a hike. because yes he was a great boyfriend, and a great person. but in a way I saw "his true colors" the moment we broke-up. and I can't believe I was with somehow that could be so heartless.