What's wrong with me?

There's this new guy in my class, and already, he's the nicest, sweetest person I've ever known in my life. I've developed a sort of crush on him but, somehow, I don't want to go out with him... I really want to be friends...

I've never felt such attraction for a person as to fall for them the moment I meet them but, for him, it's different. And yet STILL, I really want him as a friend!

What's wrong with me?

Jackie,

Nothing is wrong with you. Are you physically attracted to this guy? Sometimes thats the only thing that stands between friends and lovers. Sad but true, you could have just fallen for his personality. If you are attracted to his personality and his physique, well then nothing is wrong with you and its just the way you happen to feel. Maybe this is an honest case of "I would go out with you but I dont want to risk losing your friendship if it didnt work out." I personally have never believed those words, however this may be the case for you. Regardless your feelings may change with a little time... keep hanging out with him as a friend and see where it goes. If you guys hook up then you will be together anyway... its just time.

It's definetely not his looks. He's not bad looking at all. I mean, he's not insanely breathtaking but, he can turn MY head. :) He IS blonde, and he's tall with blue eyes and he's built like a rower (he's on the rowing team). He's not your typical gorgeous but, mixed with his personality, my head and my heart went CRAZY when I met him...

I really really like him but, I don't think I want to date him!! Grr! So annoying. He probably has no idea I like him, or maybe he knows I like him and I'm sending mixed signals. He asked me to come to his brother's wedding in the weeked. I don't want to be the girl who leads guys on... but I'm also not sure if I want him that way! This is so annoying.

Thanks for your advice though! Keep em coming if you can please :)

ask him what? I don't know how I feel about him.

And if I reach between my legs... i'm afraid I'm ball-less.

I have to agree, it doesn't sound that odd to me too. I'd better keep this short as my responses in the love and romance section can get quite long.
Just talk to him and sit next to him in class, slowly get to know him and he may slowly get to know you and like you too. We all get those gut instincts sometimes when we see someone new and in a few cases, they can turn out to be unique and profound. Furthermore, just because you like him doesn't mean you have to go out with him. It is your choice if u want to or not. So there is nothing wrong you, do you hear me, you are going to live another day lol. Sorry 8(. Good luck and take care!!! 8)

Well maybe the problem is that you dont think he would be good boyfriend material? There HAS to be something about him that makes you NOT want to DATE him if you like him that much. If we can figure out why then we can solve your problem. Anyway go to the wedding.... your his friend. If he tries to make a move on you, go with the flow or tell him how you feel.

Ok, I'll ask my mom if I can go to the wedding.

I don't think he's not boyfriend material. He'll probably be a really nice boyfriend. He's sooo great.

But then again, I thought the same thing about my ex. I don't know. I guess he's just too good for me. Anyone who gets too close to me gets corrupted somehow.

Jackie - I would hope reaching between your legs you were balless too LoL I think your boy might as well HE HE HE

JJ :o)