So theres this boy...

OKAY, I KNOW THIS IS GUNNA BE LONG,,,BUT...

yeah yeah, who gets crushes now a days right? I use to love them, they use to be so innocent back when I was still in High School. You get to see your crush every darn day, and get to drool over them all day long. But nobody told me how to handle a crush that you met at some party. This is what happened to me: I gate crashed a party with my best friend, we were welcomed with open arms by the host. The whole night I am having fun, talking to everyone. Then in a corner I notice a guy sitting there quietly, just sort of watching me. I notice we had an instant connection. But then I got distracted by this other guy who kept flirting with me.
The whole time I could feel his stare, but he never came up. Later on I found out that he repeatedly tried to introduce himself, but I kept ignoring him (I know! I didn't realize)

The host made me sing at this party, and everything went well. That's when I went back inside and sat down on the sofa. He had spoken to me outside the verandah, and got my friend to introduce me to him. I even copped a feel (he told me that I ignore him before, so I went "AWWW" then hugged him). But I don't know what I was thinking, I went back inside, and I ended up talking to the flirty guy instead. I saw him coming back inside, so I stood up, but the flirty dude started talking, so I got distracted once again. Next thing I knew the guy that I had a crush on came behind me and whispered "You have a beautiful voice" in my ears. Before I could say anything, he had gone outside. I didn't get him alone again, we were always surrounded by people. And the other guy kinda wouldn't leave me alone.

Believe it or not, I actually didn't hook up that night. I know It's my fault, I didn't want the flirty one, I had my heart set on someone else. the next day all i got was a name, no number or anything else. he's an exchange student it turns out. I thought I had no chance of seeing him again, but I made friends with one of the people he came with at the party. I thought he was gone, but it turns out he's still here. I am going insane. i don't know what the hell is wrong with me. I think about him all the time. And I really wanna see him. Do you think its a sign that he's still here?

Sorry for bombing u guys with all of these information :(

I pity him. *XD
anyway, what do you mean with "it turns out he's still here"?

Hmm, well wouldn't there be other people that know who he is and might even have his number?

Well, he's an exchange student, most of his friends have gone home, but he's still here, staying for another semester...till the end of the year.

Most of my connections with him have all left the country unfortunately. I'm trying to find him on facebook, so far, no luck

Hmm..well...maybe, HOPEFULLY you'll bump into him at school..if you guys go to the same school...

*bite lips* we dont go to the same school, he goes to uni, ive taken a gap year. i kinda crash parties...hehe

To be honest, I would just let it go. You obviously weren't THAT interested if you spent the whole night talking to the other guy. Not to mention you don't even know this guy, you didn't really talk to him. So honestly, I would just forget about it.

^ I completely agree. From my perspective, it doesn't sound like you were that interested if you were easily distracted by someone else. If you were interested YOU should have made the first move so that you wouldn't miss the opportunity to be acquainted. Also, you could have easily just said, "Excuse me," or something and walked away from the flirt.

This is a lesson for you in the near or distance future.

Ps. I have to admit, this boy sure does sound sweet coming up to you and whispering in your ear that, "You have a beautiful voice." That's too bad you lost the opportunity to introduce yourself. I actually hope you meet again. He sounds far more interesting, even to me, than some lady killer.

Yeah, I completely agree with the people above me. You've pretty much lost your chance :/

But hey, if it was meant to be, you'll bump into him again ;P

THAT IS IT...I AM NEVER DRINKING AGAIN.
You guys have to understand that I have an attention span of a two year old when I'm drunk. But of course you guys are right. I can't believe I was so dumb. And yeah, this is pretty much a lost cause. :(

OMG MAJOR UPDATE! So I got woken up by a text at 8 in the morning saying this boy that I've been lusting on is having a party. I ended up getting his number, now he's personally invited me at his party. All bets is on the table; ANYTHING GOES

So helpless and kinda feel like im gonna have a stroke...

Yeah I know I am acting a bit immature. Even though I'm drunk, I never act slutty or anything, its just not me. But I don't know, something bit me in the ass this time around. I may have the attention span of a goldfish when I'm drunk, weirdly enough my brain is ready to switch to manual as soon as danger signs starts flashing.

LOL don't worry, I wont hop in to bed with him or anything, I've held on to my virginity for this long, I'm not about to let it go while I'm drunk (YES I'm a virgin, and proud of it)

I think I'm just curious. But we'll see what happens. It has been two months since I saw him, I just wanna see if that connection I felt with him wasn't just imaginary.

OH thank you for telling me the truth. Despite of how I sound, might be hard to believe, But I'm really nothing like that. I've got friends who are like that, and I've watched them screw things up for years now, and I learn from them.

And with the jumping in bed thing, well...my sister got pregnant at 19, that brought a lot of misery in the family. I would be stupid to repeat history

"I may have the attention span of a goldfish when I'm drunk..."

^ Shouldn't that be the hint to quit drinking before it leads to a serious problem; addiction, rape or pregnancy? Count yourself lucky that nothing has happened to you yet. But sooner or later, mark my words, your luck will run out. Although, by the sounds of things, your drinking has already become an addiction.

"...my sister got pregnant at 19, that brought a lot of misery in the family. I would be stupid to repeat history."

^ No matter what lessons in life you've learned or what morals you have, when you're drunk, as you said earlier, "ANYTHING GOES". Not to mention, you don't always learn your mistakes by watching others, sometimes in order to learn from them you make the mistakes yourself.

Like Amanda said, it's not only jumping into bed with somebody that will earn you a reputation. And that reputation isn't always just as a slutt, sometimes it's something that's equally not as respectable or something to not take pride in oneself for.

You don't need alcohol; don't need to be drunk or the party girl, to have a good time, feel good, impress anybody or for anyone to like you. If you do, you need help. I've seen too many young girls, some who use to be my friends, waste their life away this way.

That's great! Hope you have fun at the party, and good luck with the guy but don't over do it! :P

Nope, i didn't. it was a great night. he's amazing. he told me that hearing me sing was the highlight of the time he's spent in this city. it was sweet, he was sweet

That's great!

*blush* *cough* yeah