stuck and dont know what to do

Couple of three or four questions:

How do both girls feel about you?

How loyal do you feel?

How serious do you consider your current relationship to be?

Are all three of you friends?

Bert.

good questions, defently should make him think...hmm i'd like to add to that, who do you feel a stronger connection for? think about all of the above as well as my own, the right decision lies in your heart...good luck to you! Love Heather.

make *her* think *grins* (always check the profiles first!)

Who do you see yourself being with for the rest of your life? Or do you just want a short term fling-type situation.

If you want to seriously settle down with someone then this is very hard to consider.

If you want a fling and you dont think either could ever work long term, then go for the other girl and leave your girlfriend.

Whatever you do... just dont cheat on her. Give her the respect to at least break up with her first.