Life changes whether you want it to or not.

Sigh. I used to know what i wanted from life. Who i wanted to be and what i thought my life should be like but in one day with one conversation my life turned upside down and i honeslty dont know how to take all this. I had everything under control for once in my life and now..i have lost it all. I cant say this is a bad thing but i cant say this is a good thing. I cant go into much detail but i would like some comments..anything really. How am i supposed to handle my world being ripped apart..but not necessarily in a bad way...?

Change is definitely scary. Even, when it's good, and especially when it happens quickly. But, when you think about it, those times when your are vulnerable and fragile are the best opportunities for personal growth. You don't change and create yourself when everything in your life is static. You can take these frightening opportunities to decide for yourself who you really are, or who you want to make yourself. In some ways, it's almost that complete freedom that's scary, isn't it? But try to embrace it, because it's probably more of an opportunity than it seems.

Life isn't suppose to be easy and if it was, then what would be the fun in that? If there was no pain then there would be no joy. You can't always have your life in control. There'll be bumps here and there and obstacles blocking your way, and you just have to learn to overcome them. Once you do, I'm sure you'll be a stronger and better person. Whatever your going through, I'm sure it'll change your life in some way but I'm sure for the better. Many people are suffering through a lot, whether it's friend drama or living out in the street. You have to live with it so might as well enjoy the journey.

Thank you for taking time to reply to this. All of you have helped in some way.

I interpret your post to mean ' I've cut all form of risks"...

Without risk there can't be rewards, and we only have one life, so we might as well have the courage to take risks... Cause we'll never know if and when we die...

Change is a good thing... It helps bring in fresh air to stagnation