Uhmm?

So its been 2 months and a bit.. he said he`d be going off to univeristy in Sept 2010 so we would have another year together( I know we planned way ahead) anwyays ... a few weeks ago when we met up for a date he said his dad got a job somwhere in the States, and they'll be moving at the begining of October..honestly i feel im in love with this boy.. he's changed me without even knowing it , i`ve become this calm nice gurl that i always tried to be but never got back to it.. since he said he was moving our realtionship hasnt seemed on track.. im so lost and confuzed in pain.. I feel so bad that were going to end up breaking up before he leaves ( he said it would be hard for himt o do along distance relationship)..even with the time differnces it would be a 3 hour difference.. I dont even know for sure if hes coming back or what.. he said he`d try to in the summers but im usually gone awyay thn..

i guess what im trying that ask is should I just try to put everything behind me now and break up with him give us our space before he leves so it wont be so hard hitting when the time comes.... or wait ntil the time comes for him to leave and see how things go ?

Some long distance relationships work. I've been in a few. I'm not going to lie to you though, there is always going to be a trust issue if you see how it goes when he leaves. The thing you have to ask yourself is 'can I trust him enough to be with him when he's gone?' If the answer is yes, then see how it goes but it the answer is no then you should end it for both of your sakes and just explain that you have feelings for him but you can't thrive on not knowing ig you will see him again or not.
The descion is yours though at the end of the day, follow your heart.

Well the hard truth is that sence you feel that you are already ganna break up anyways, and im ganna sound like an ass for this, but cut it off now, the sooner you cut it the sooner you heal. Also, try to maintain a friendship with him, a long distance friendship isnt hard to mannage at all, and who knows, maybe, someday, you two will end up with eachother again some day

Wel yes, in his case he wants to break up becuase he cant stand the distacne.. so with him he already said before he leaves we should/have to break up . I think lately he's been starting to slow things down with us.. he hasent said a word about him leaving .. but idunno.. he lives like 1h away.. i asked if there was a way to see him ebfore he left hes like 'maybe yes , maybe no , i dont know'

no, no ur not an ass for saying it at all. I've been thinkin about it long and hard adn you know what you might just be riight.the sooner things end the less pain it will be.. . a long distance friendsip isnt hard to matain.. i guess it worth a shot.. 'someday' is like 'forever' a 50/50 chance.. huh..