If you loved him what would you do?

Can you call it love even if there was lies in the relationship? And now a seperation even if both want to be together but don't know how?

I'm so confused because I love my ex with all my heart and I want to be with him yet things are so complicated there were many lies in our relationship but we never cheated on each other. I dont know what to say to him but I cant keep saying sorry and neither can he.

What do i do?

I realize that, we do trust each other just things are so off for us at the moment.

How can we, or anyone for that matter, give you any advice when you have left so many blanks. It's like playing the Fill In The Blanks game!

"We're ex's because _________________________. I'm confused because _________________________. Things are complicated because _________________________. I feel sorry because ______________________."

Seriously. What's going on, or what happened? You're going to have to be more clear.

Sorry to say, but you can love someone and lie to them, and not trust someone, without trust or honesty there can be no relationship, not no love. Sometimes we lie to the ones we love to protect them, and sometimes we dont trust the ones we love becouse they have givin us reason not to trust them, this dose not mean we dont love them. The way it sounds to me is that you guys lie to eachother so much thinking that your protecting them from pain, well what sucks about love is that you need to learn that honesty is in fact the best policy, it will hurt less if you tell them up front when the event happens, then lie to them and let them find out the hard way, cuz then they will be hurt not just from what happened but from being lied to has well. Sounds to me like you two just some time to reevaluate your situations and reconnect with your selfs before you can reconnect with eachother.

You can still love someone no matter how much they've lied to you and hurt you, the human heart is funny like that. But love can't last without honesty and trust. If you two honestly want the relationship to work and want to give it a second try then my advice would be to just be friends for a while, work through the lies and learn how not to lie to each other for whatever reason. Once you both have learned to be openly honest with each other and earned back the trust in each other then give it a second try.