wut stops ppl from leavin abusive relationships?

Fear Liz
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I have this character, he's called Lucius. He isn't a very nice person. In fact he's so far beyond not nice they've yet to invent a word to describe it with any degree of justice.

He's a Bedlamite, a bastard. He doesn't care about anything other than himself. In the mind of every Bedlamite is a full grown tree called psychopath.

Problem with this type of character is that their bastardry actually attracts certain types of women.

Quick snippet from Lucius (A little technical, but it conveys the point nicely.):

"Another danger about bedlamites is that some women actually have a psychological predisposition towards forming attachments to them. They even fall in love with them. These women, usually of a hysteric or histrionic personality, often borderline personality disorder, feel empowered when attached to the bedlamite, regardless of the truth she has been told about him, or regardless of what he himself has told her. Some of these women have an underlying fantasy to feel that they are in control with the psychopathic male.

For many women, the attachment to a psychopath is more than this. Many simply deny the truth, blindly trusting and ignoring reality. Some, even when presented with the cold hard facts, will still admit that they cannot stop loving their psychopathic partner, even after they've been discarded by him. This problem is both a psychosexual one (women with personality disorders themselves who become obsessed with bedlamites), or women who just won't admit to the truth or are ignorant about the situation. It can even be a combination of all factors."

So to understand a little more about the mental side of abusive relationships we must realise it is a combination not just of fear (though in essence that IS the major factor) but the melding of the two minds involved and their symbiosis.

Bert

Speak for your own woman justplainme

I hate assholes...assholes create shit, I'm tired of dealing with shit, less assholes means less shit, shit stinks...

i was in an abusive realationship and it was aliving hell if you want to chat you can talk 2 me at bexlovespike@hotmail.com

ppl go back to abusive realtionships becuz the person who is beating them make them feel like they need to go back and there not good fer anything so the person who is being abused stays with the other person becuz of that or they just stay with the person becuz they are scared that the person will come and beat them or beat them until there in the hospital and some think that if they stay with the person maybe that they can change the person and if they cant change the person at least the person isint beating on other ppl and its just one thats all i have to say about this fer now