Advice Please

I'm 20 years old and me and my boyfriend just got married on Sunday. I'm sitting here wondering if it was the biggest mistake of my life. I'm currently 9 months pregnant with his child and we've been together a year and one month. Right when I got pregnant we got our second apartment together. He had this friend named Justin who would keep him out till 3 in the morning and not call me. When he would get home he would be on serious drugs. I was at that time 3 months pregnant. I would find weed in the apartment and Justin continued not only to disrespect me but pressure my boyfriend into doing drugs, staying out late, and lieing to me. One day i got sick of the bullshit and my boyfriend came home to an empty apartment...and I mean EMPTY! Three days later he called me begging to get back together. I told him that only under the condition that he cut Justin completely out of his life. He promised he would. We moved back in together and went Justin free for 6 months. He broke that promise last night by calling Justin and then lieing about it. He told me he just wanted to see how he was doing and that he had no intention of hanging around him again. I refuse to have a person like Justin around me, much less my family!!! What do I do!!?? My husband thinks what he did was ok and it's not! He won't even have a normal conversation with me about it. He thinks he's right about everything! PLEASE HELP!

"Justin continued not only to disrespect me but pressure my boyfriend into doing drugs, staying out late, and lieing to me."

You seem to be lying to yourself, people do what they want to, your husband makes his own choices. The fact that you blame the friend instead of making him take responsibility for his own actions makes you an enabler. How long is it going to be eveyone elses fault before you open your eyes and look at the truth?

I think that you should handle this matter calmly.

First of all try to understand the nature of the relationship between your husband and Justin,if they are really good and close friends,I mean try to dig deep to find out what makes your husband willing to maintain this friendship.

May be he thinks that Justin is a good friend,may be they share a lot of things both in worse and good moments.

You have to know why are you so severe in judging Justin.

If you are sure that he is a bad guy,try to talk to your husband calmly about that and make him open his eyes.

You're at the right age to know what is wrong and right.. what your bf action is not right for you. instead of help you and love you he do what he want... you should have a nice home, with a good partner that will take care of you, instead of giving you a headache which is bad for your situation right now... i hope we gave you an advice that you will think about. you can message me personally, i will answer it as soon i read it.. i will help you.. promise!!!

"Ok i mean..... wait i thought she said he has a wife oh what everrrr. i thought she said he has ANOTHER wife..."

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