I know it's not right , i just need some kind of feedback

  • bearhug
    15 years ago

    So this new guy i like has started talking to me a whole lot more and everytime we ee each other he tends to grab on to me and hug me and other stuff like that .

    well , i was talking to him on msn and i have a webcam .
    and he wants me to show him my breasts .
    but i feel uncomfortable doing that .
    and i told him i wasnt going to but he's still trying to peer pressure me into doing it .

    i need to know how to let him get the picture that if im ever going to do that , it wont be over any kind of camera .

  • Captivat3d
    15 years ago

    I say if he keeps pressuring you stop talking to him completely.

    Any guy that tries to pressure you into doing something you don't wanna do is bad news. He obviously wants you for your body and for his own pleasure.

    For starters, just get off the webcam and just chat and see if he's still interested in who are you and not just your body.

  • KJ
    15 years ago

    "Any guy that tries to pressure you into doing something you don't wanna do is bad news. He obviously wants you for your body and for his own pleasure."

    ^^I think that you've got your answer right there.

    But, you should definately be blunt whenever you tell him. Dont make it seem as if it's not a big deal, because it pretty much is. I think he just wants to see how far you will go if he just asked you to do something. If he seems to lose interest after you telling him how it is (you are not showing him any body parts over cam), then he isn't for you.

  • Hopeless Romantic
    15 years ago

    Yea pressure is not good. no one shouldn't pressure you to do things that you feel uncomfortable with.

  • Clown
    15 years ago

    If you really want him to stop and get the picture, dont stop talking to him, but cuse him out. most guys buckle when a woman gose off on them. it scares us, it really dose, despite the physically advantage most guys have over women, a pissed off woman is still our worse nightmare cuz most WONT hit back

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    15 years ago

    Shut off the webcam and chat with him instead and tell him straight up that it makes you uncomfortable to cross that line. Explain to him why. And if he keeps doing it? Tell him you won't tolerate if pushing you. Whether you like him or not if he won't respect your feelings and wishes on things then he's clearly not a good guy for you.

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    15 years ago

    Very good point Rubberlips, not something most people think about since they say it's just a picture, what damage can it do? A lot.

  • Malboros pipe
    15 years ago

    Ask him to show his manhood first,

  • Mello193
    15 years ago

    Hes a creep stay away