He's the boy version of me!!

OK, ive found a guy that is the boy version of me. like hes shy, lovely, cute as hell, and has gone through nearly all the problems that i have. well neways, i crashed in his room last night *17/02/2010* n he cuddled me, sed that i was gawjus n that he wishes that he wasnt such a jerk coz he liked me but liked sumone else *but not goin out with them*. he is a reali nice guy, but i reali reali reali want him. he treats me like a lady, and he is so nice to me. plz help, i dnt want him to hurt this other girl, but i dnt want him to stop likin me like he is now, coz idk it jst feels right to b with him. he tells me everything. HELP!

Thats hard i think what would be the best thing to do is just keep talking to him and hanging with him and wait it out cause things usually turn out for te best =]

Eventually you might have to make the choice...

your happiness or HER happiness? but the best thing to do is for HIS happiness.

I've been in a situation like this before when I was younger where someone I was "dating" also liked another girl. Personally, if I were you, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with him if he's undecided about how he truly feels about me and if he's undecided about another girl. I would make the choice for him. Until he could sort out his feelings towards me and her we would have to settle with being friends till then.

Either way, when he comes to a decision, someone will be hurt, there's no tip-toeing around it (at least it seems to me that you would be hurt if he chose to be with this other girl over you, I'm not sure just how close this other girl is to him). He might choose to be with you, choose to be with her or he even might choose to not be with either of you, except maybe as friends or until he knows how he feels about either of you. In any scenario, how much hurt either of you will feel all just depends on how either of you choose to deal with it; if you dwell on it and can't just be friends or if you move on and accept just being friends.

Ps. Plz dnt tlk like this, i cnt read it so well.

I know how you feel. I like this guy and he likes me to but he will not ask me out. All you can do is keep talking to him like the others said.

I agree with Kuro. It's a matter of choice. Would you rather make yourself happy or her happy?

For me, all is fair. He's not dating her. Why not? Why not go for him if you have a good connection and you think he is worth it. If he chooses you, then clearly he finds you more worth it then this other girl. If he doesn't, then it's his loss and it wasn't meant to be and hard as it is to face.