What happens when he goes to college....? :/

  • writersxblock
    14 years ago

    My boyfriend is going off to college this fall, and i'm only going to be a senior in high school. He is really sweet and we are really close. He says he wants to do long distance, I do too.
    I'm just terribly sad and scared.

  • XxBabii GirlxX
    14 years ago

    You just have to try to make it work and make sure your both putting effort in it.. not just one of you cause then it dont work.

    its going to have its down pionts in it but just remember that it has its ups too just dont give up.
    its going to be hard but in the end its all worth it.
    i once was in a longdistance relationship cause my bf lived in geogia finishing collage and i was in texas going to collage and it worked out we now live together and are engaged.

    it can work as long as both of you guys try..
    i hope the best for the both of you if you ever need someone to talk to im always here

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    14 years ago

    Long distance is really hard and painful but if you're strong enough and you care enough about each other it can and does work. Stay in contact as much as possible. Call each other every chance you get, write emails to each other when you can't call. Reassure him how much you care every chance you get and see each other every time you can. If you both are willing to put a lot of work and time into it then you'll be fine and it'll work. I've found LDR's are even harder than normal physically close ones but totally worth it. Good luck hun. It's a hard road but if you stay strong the distance will only make your relationship stronger and closer and build your trust and faith in each other.

  • sibyllene
    14 years ago

    Staying in contact is good, and regular communication is essential for a healthy long-distance relationship, but also remember that you two need to live your own lives. He's going to be branching out into this whole new experience, and may need to do some of that on his own. You, similarly, will want to enjoy your last year of high school without pining constantly and calling your boyfriend every five minutes. If you are both able to be your own people, and still stay true and connected, then it shows that you've got a good thing going for you.

    Communication = good.
    Constant Contact = overkill.