Being In Love

I've tried my best to keep up with the posts on this site and I've found the "Love and Romanse Forum my favorite. A very popular thread, I've noticed has been "How do I know I am in Love?" And many of you have responded with "You just know". I have felt like I have fallen in love at least 3 times. And on all those occassions I had no doubt in my mind that I was in love. But my only problem is, I find myself questioning my love for the person after the relationship is over. I start to wonder was I really in love with him? and etc. I did that with all my relationships in which I was in love, except one. Who was my first love. And I still think of him to this day. I guess I am asking if it is normal to love someone and then doubt your love for them after you break up. Or was I never really truly in love? I'm just not sure. Because my first love still lives inside me. I don't and never have doubted my love for him. But is that just because he was my first love? Or does being in love with someone always stay with you, in where you have no doubts, even after years have passed, and even if its not the first person you have ever fallen in love with? Because I have always heard the saying "You never forget your first love." And I was wondering how true it is to some of you...

Well this thread didn't come out the way I wanted it to but I hope you understand what I am saying. I'd deeply appreciate your opinions. And I'd love to hear your stroies in which you can relate

-BJ