Here is my dilemma

Here's is my dilemma....
My boy and I broke up about 2 1/2 weeks ago. It was really sad. He cried and I cried. We held eachother for hours. But the break-up had to be done. Towards the end of our relationship he was really sad. Not because of me. Nothing made him happy anymore. I tried so hard to but only to no avail. I sat him down and told him if he wanted a way out of this relationship to say the word and tell my why. He responded with an " I don't know" but hours later decided we should. That night I called him and we talked for hours, cried some more tears, and contimplated getting back together. But a few days later he decided we shouldn't....at least for now. He says that right now we are broken up but he doesn't know what he will want later. Basically he wants me to do some waiting while he figures out how to be happy and what makes him the happiest. It took us breaking up for him to tell me he loves me. Which is the real kicker. Over the past 2 weeks I've done a lot of talking about our relationship with him. I don't know if I should back off.....if I should start over......if I should wait.......or if I should give up.

Thanks for reading that....It was really long. Anyways what do you think I should do?

if u really love him give him some space let him fink dont rub it in his nose that he aint got u just try to stay close mates let him figure owt wot he wants then let him no ur always ther for him as a mtae or maybe more, if u love him u will wait

Give him space, but dont put your life on hold. If you find someone else who interests you dont hold back because of your X. Things will naturally fall into place, or they wont, and you need to be alright with either.

Keep in mind that YOU are not the problem, he is, so dont feel bad. Make yourself happy while he is making himself happy, because you already learned that you cant make him happy if he doesnt want to be, no matter how hard you try.

i agree with what they said. if you two are meant to be, you will be together. love conquers all.
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

I would comment but I don't need to. Situation covered.

I would still talk to him but give him space to think and to figure out what he needs to do. If you think you are supposed to be together then jsut wait give it time dont give up on love

I knew this is what I should do. I was just hoping all of this would be easier and someone had a perfect way to deal w/ a break-up. I knew that wouldn't happen. But you've got to have hope anyway.