how do you.....

how do you know when your love becomes an obsession?
help if ya can plz, i'm wondering how you would know

Well if love between two people is an obsession its called co dependent and over bearing.

If love of a person who you have never been in a relationship with and that person doesnt like you back is an obsession, its creepy, and you can tell because they may stock you, or have pictures of you, or weird stuff like that.

If someone you broke up with is obsessed with you they need to get over it.

Everything is different though... if you are talking about a specific situation more info would be nice :)

When you're obsessed with someone, you will do absolutely anything for them to impress them...not to just simply help them out. you will only do things which will make you feel that the person will want to be with you more. well thats what i rekon anyway!

thanx you two. someone said I was obsessed with my bf, but I didn't think so. I just love him a lot. thanx for your advice!!!
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

If its mutual its not "obsession," its how it should be.

that is what i thought. and we do love each other.
thanx!!
*~*Soldier Lover*~*