Kinda of an odd question but

lmfao!!!!!!

It's easier to control rythm and speed. Penetration is also deeper, a natural need in the psyche of sex for us blokes.

It's the way we're designed to have sex, so it's kind of an inbuilt response to sex for men.

It puts the woman in a submissive position, which guys like (at least subconsciously), and it gives them total control, which guys like (at least subconsciously, lol).

But there are benefits to women doing it doggy style too, first of all you or your guy can rub your clit, and secondly its easier to hit your G spot.

And only if the guy is an asshole should he want to do it doggy style to imagine someone else. If you are in a loving and trusting relationship he should even think of your when he jacks off... but thats in a perfect world and many guys are scum, so what can I say....

OK im going to stop now, this isnt Cosmopolitan.

I would like to point out to Ms Greer over there (said very tongue in cheek and with humour) that women fantasise about other sexual partners just as much as men do.

You want equal rights, you got 'em!

Love and hugs,

Bert

Oh yeah.. as for my favourite position? I like 'em all just fine.

Well a point proven with cheek and humor is a point still proven. I don’t know nearly as many women who fantasize about other men while having sex, they normally fantasize about the one that they are with because women are much more EMOTIONALLY oriented when it comes to sex. Most women can only orgasm in a relationship that they feel secure and loved in, that’s a fact. Men are more sensation oriented and less emotionally oriented, so they think about the most beautiful woman and not necessarily the feelings. I know that I always think about my boyfriend whenever I get off, never anyone else and I couldn’t climax if I were thinking of someone else. It’s because of my feelings that I get off, not because he is Brad Pitt.

Generalization, but true generalization.

And the whole submission thing isn’t about equal rights; it’s about animalistic nature. The reason I said that men like control and for the woman to be submissive "(SUBCONSCIOUSLY)" is because even if they say they want the relationship equal and women bitch about equal rights, etc. its still natural to have the man be in the power position. This is also why so many women get off on talking dirty and condescending to them, for instance "Let me fu ck you, you dirty little whore," and why women beg and moan, etc. Its how sex works, that’s why the guy has the dick and the chick has the pussy. He does the fucking, she gets fucked.

Explicit, but its true.

Sexual domination is hard wired into men. Sexual submission is hard wired into women. Thats not to say that men dont like being put in their place by a dominant woman every once in a while, or that women dont want to be dominatrixes, but in general the woman is submissive.

Anyone ever read the kama sutra? I mean REALLY read it, not just heard that its like the sex bible. Its so chauvinist its not even funny; but its how sex works.

Thats why men are HARD WIRED to like doggy style, and so are women. Thats also why missionary is also popular, it sure as hell isnt because its the most comftorable for either involved, but its because the man is in control.

My equal rights thing was in total relation to the Greer joke, but I know what you're saying about male domination.

But back to the fantasizing part... Sure the it's the feeling that gets you off, but what gets the feeling motivated? Why do so many long established couples dress up, use costumes, role play prostitution and act out infinite scenarios among many other things?

Naughty nurses, french maids and the grail that is the Princess Leia bikini... all so very popular for a reason. It takes you away from normal life and puts you elsewhere surreal and fantastical. It is in no way any different to imagining you're getting a good minting from Brad Pitt or Prince Charles of Greg from down the street.

Bert

Yes, but in general its more the woman that dresses up and wears sexy lingerie for the guy.... sex is more for male pleasure in so many ways.

Look at the magazine "Cosmopolitan," Its ALL ABOUT PLEASING A MAN. Where are the magazines that men read abotu pleasing women?? Ummm. No where. Most men are ill-cliterorate, and dont even know it, because a woman doesnt want to speak up nearly as much as a man, but woman are naturally more insecure in bed than men. People can dispute that, but its true.

Do you see how all the costumes that you named are about the WOMAN dressing up??? Naughty nurses, french maids, Princess Leia, prostitution, etc. Yes, men dress up too but a fraction of the time that woman do.

Women are the ones who moan,
Women are the ones who beg,
Women are the ones who are the "givers" in bed, (in general), especially because boys know nothing about making love, they just know how to fuck. Thats the difference between a man and a boy, but thats for another post entirely.

In general I feel sorry for you if that's the way it is.

Cosmo is all about pleasing guys because it's a womans mag and very few men read it.

Any time my wife wants me to don a bikini and get all 'Help me Obi Wan'... I'm there. Anyways I was only the more the generic female out fits because I am a man, that's what men like. My wife still gets all minty when I put on my old soldier's kit. That really turns her on. I havent been a soldier for five years.

I moan, I beg, I give. It's damned important to be equal in the sack. And yes, that defines me as man not boy.

Bob- woman on top.. a personal favourite!

Bert

You just proved all my points for me.

I am not saying men don’t want a woman to have a good time in bed, they would like to think that they are pleasing their woman, but then again most woman are more willing to fake orgasms then speak up. Is that a mans fault? No. Its the woman’s, we need to speak up more in bed, but most men’s only mistake is that they don’t ASK. This is until they are in a very committed relationship or when they are officially "men," and not boys.

I'm also not saying women don’t like to experiment, I am simply saying that dressing up is more male oriented then female oriented, and men get off on it more in general. That’s undeniable.

Women’s and men’s roles in sex are clearly defined, and there is no arguing with that, not that there aren’t exceptions.

And you proved my point about Cosmo too, of course men don’t read it, nor do they read any other magazine that tells them how to please a woman.

From a teen perspective sex is very simple. All my girlfriends are reading Cosmo and worried that if they sleep with their boyfriend he will say that she is bad, or afraid that her boobs aren’t big enough, or that she wont give good enough head, and she is comparing herself to his last girlfriend, however guys are juts talking about scoring and rating the girls. They aren’t worried about how to give good oral, not nearly as much as girls are. Sex stays this way until boys grow up into being men and sex evens out more.

And of course men like woman on top, they get to touch everything, see everything, and its less work than doggy style lol.

Well, with the lights off its dark lol

With the lights on they can see everything....

Its kind of like watching porn... but being in the action :) lol

Why do you think people like mirrors? And actually the whole lights and mirrors thing isnt just guys... alot of girls are into it too, just depending on how sexual a creature god made you lol

I have come to the conclusion that girls shouldn't be reading Cosmo. Does not the boys/men ideal work equally for girls/women?

Bob: *tries to speak... dies laughing*

i was reading my boyfriends copy of Ralph once they had an article on 101 best positions lol it was pretty funny, but good lmfao

Cosmo, it will kill all.