I need help with....

Okay so some of you know my story but if you dont ill sum it up..

i just got married in Aug. and have a 2 year old boy and pregant with a girl right. my and my husband have had our ups and downs but its been going very good lately and im happy as ever ..
but yesturday kris and I were talking and he wants to move to back to washington were hes family is and some of mine but i dont know if i wanna go..
i have friends here and some family i have gotten realy close to.. and our son is really close to to hes friends and my brother.
my bestfriend lives with us to and if we leave she wont have a place to stay and i came to texas with her. we been though so much together i will kinda feel like im leaving here with nothing..
but im not sure what i should say or do cause then i do miss my parents and my sisters and other family and kris family and i really miss washington all together.. im just dont really know what to say or do about it..
and the thing that is bothering me the most is that kris will be leaving behind his other son and we been in the process of getting him so he has a parent in his life.. it would look like we dont care about him and i dont want it to look like that cause we do care about him so much.. hes over here alot and is so close to my son.. i just dont know what to do or say..
ill take any advice

Maybe you guys could move back eventually, but especially when there's this other young kid in the picture, I think you should cool your jets where you are for a while. Until that situation gets figured out, at least. What's your husband's rush? Additionally, you aren't obligated to stay for the convenience of your friend, but it would definitely be courteous if you gave her some time to find another place to live.

As married partners, this is something you and your hubs will have to discuss together, and talk over all the implications. It sounds like you're trying to be what everyone needs right now. You're trying to take care of your husband, your baby, your baby-on-the-way, your husband's kid, AND your best friend. It seems like you're a really caring person, but you have to draw the line somewhere. Otherwise, you'll not have any energy to even care for the people who are most important to you.

He wants to go back because all his family is in washington and he got a job offer too and i know he doesnt like texas or being away from his family specailly senice our son has only meet my family and not his family yet..

i understand what your saying about my husband comes first and i know that and he is more important and comes first but i just would feel bad leaving here she came with me to texas to go to college together..

Its the same one he gots has just the company opened a new one in washington.. he will have the same pay and everything the only defferience is its not in texas.

and another thing that is if we were to move we will be leaving behind his other son and we been trying to get him.. we are a big part of his life now he comes to our house everyother day to play with our son and to get to know us better..

hahaha its okay.. your trying to understand it better

Well we are packing.. ): we been talking about it and we finally agreed it will be good for us to be around more family and go back to a place we both love and miss so much... we will come visit texas alot till we get my husbands son that we are in the middle of getting.. the only thing im worried about is my baby boy hes 2 and hes so close to his uncle and aunt so much.. but i hope he will be fine and not cry when we move at the end of this month