people with long-distance relationships...

  • Selfrejected
    19 years ago

    im in a long distance relationship...and its really hard...just like not seeing that person everyday...hurts alot inside...does anyone else have a long distance relationship...?

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    I am telling you this right now.

    Long distance relationships do not work. In the ideal world love conquers all, but isn't and it doesn't.

    Sure, they go just fine for a while, but the need for physical companionship on a more regular basis will inevitably get in the way.

    That's why it hurts inside.

    Bert

  • Selfrejected
    19 years ago

    we've been going out for a year and a half...and it seems alright so far...

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    I'm not critising your relationship, but making comment on long distance relationships in general.

    However...

    A relationship should never be just 'alright'.

  • Selfrejected
    19 years ago

    meh compared to half my relationships...alright is a good thing

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    I am in a long distance relationship and we have been together for 6 months. We probably talk like 5 to 6 hours a day on average though, or more, we are inseperable and it hurts so much to be apart, but it will be a long time before we can be together. We have a count down of days, but the only reason it works is because I trust him implicitly, and he trusts me. Without trust long distance relationships dont work, but with mutual love, mutual understanding, mutual need, and mutual trust, they can work beautifully.

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    I'm in a long distance relationship. he lives 4 states away. We've known each other for almost a year and have been together for almost a month. things are going great, we really love each other.
    *~*Soldier Lover*~*

  • Selfrejected
    19 years ago

    thanks people...that re-insurance...is well needed

  • Emily
    19 years ago

    I'm in a long distance relationship, as far as u could go basically. hes in California while i'm in New York. its really hard. but i love him so much. but i talk to him everyday on instant messager...it helps a lot.

  • Steven
    19 years ago

    long distance relationship doesn't work out man! she gonna block u soon or later... and she might fall in love with someone else so or later... but i have a long distance relationship... we just friends.. and the cool thing is the person gonna come live with me =P! sweet!! well if u believe ur gonna ever meet in person... then keep it up... if not? just let go and move on

  • *tanya*
    19 years ago

    my boyfriend just moved 6 hours away to go to uni, but we still talk pretty much everyday and we trust each other and we will see each other every holidays but i still miss him like hell!!! i didnt even get to spend valentines day with him :( only another 5 weeks.. i believe it can work as long as there is total trust from both sides of the relationship.. but it is a very difficult journey indeed...