Jackie Martinez
14 years ago
I've never been ay good at balancing time with my friends, and time with my significant other. I love my friends, and I love spending time with them, but it really gets me when they get upset at me when I want to spend time with him. And the worst part is that Im just starting to get to know him, so I am really kind of annoyed at this situation. I cant be mad at my friends, but how do I tell them that I still love them and want to see them but still be able to spend time away from them? I love my friends, they'll be here after he is not, so how do I balance the time so I can please my friends, me, and him? |
quiet lullaby
14 years ago
Its important to keep your friends as friends. Its part of normal development to want to spend time with your partner. Try to set a regular time or occasion when you can hang out with friends. I always have my bestfriend round on wednesday nights, we normally watch a film and have a good weeks work of gossip. Your friends were there first, and though you might not feel as intensely about them, they are very important. just let them know that you are still you, but you've met an amazing person, whom you need to have an intimate relationship with. Everyone will understand, especially when their turn comes. |
Elizabeth
14 years ago
I don't know if my advise will be helpful to you or not, you may have already gotten the situation figured out, but this is my take and it's here if you'd like to hear it: |