hwo do u stop cutting?

ive stopped cutting for about 1 week...its so hard and the onli reason i stopped was bc my mom saw it...urgh >0, anyway i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions that i cood do on my own.... dont tell me to go see a counsiler im already getting that (my moms making me!) so yah iwas jsut wondering if someone cood tlel me how to stop cutting!!

just know you want to stop, you can do anything... if you yourself inside and out wants to stop then you will but if you dont then you really wont be able to, i mean you can try but it might just cause more stress and depression and push you to a point where your right on the edge and then you may do something stupid that you cant regret..
but if you really want to give up go for it and you will make it :D

i dont wanna give up the onli reason i want to is bc its maing my mom sad..... but ur rite it will push me over theedge if i force myself to tsop unwillingly.... im so afraid of that......i think i need help so that i wont want ot do it bc rite now i want to so bad....... 1 week stopping is already stressful... thanx for ur addvice

thats ok, just one thing. never give up for another, i dont mean that in a horrible way, but it just dont work, trust me... if you mums upset and you want to stop her being upset then you have to be the one who wants to give up so shes not upset, not your giving up for her, but your upset.
I know its hard but sometimes you have to be the one, you have to want to give up.
Just if you feel you have a problem because it can cause problems to some, get all your strength together and go see someone or talk to me on msn..

im cpruce@hotmail.com im always ready to listen

hope it all goes well

I am trying to stop cutting... It was going okay, today was the 7 day mark, but then i cut and screwed it up. So, I'm starting over again. I will not give up.

But one thing that helps me is having an elastic on my wrist. I just snap it when I want to cut. I also scratch myself until I feel satisfied.

Good luck, hun.
If you need to talk, send my a private message!

Love,
Tiff

lol i dont wanna stop cutting... my mom wants me to stop ive realized that im not gonna make it much longer if thats my only reason tahts to UNKNOWN.... ill try tthe elastic thing.... thanx for the suggestion... today is my 7th day mark 2!!!! i think im gonna do it on my hip tho next chance ive got... my mom stopped checking me everyday so i think i can get away with it.... i really shoodnt b asking for help and then telling u where im gonna do it...but u no wut i need it so o well.... thanx!!

caitlyn the shitty part is i do wanna leave.... and see everything everyone says i can chuck bak at them i wishses i woodnt but i can... i believe this isnt real i dont feel like explaining it but my head is all shitty and i think that death is better so everyone is always telling me dont cut to deep cuz u cood die but i wanna i wanna and that makes me wanna cut more.... but i no ur all looking to help so thank u for trying..... i figure ill keep doing it i no thats wrong but its wut i figure... not tontie tho but i will next time i get upset and ill do it until i want help until the shrink im seeing convinces me that me myself i want to stop and not someone else telling me 2 stop.... well bi than u all so much!

hun im da same my mom saw it an is sending me 2 a councila 2. ive tried 2 stop but it aint worked i just feel i have ta cut. sorry guess that doesn't help u much.soz xxxxx

if you get an urge get ice and hold it in your hand closed it will hurt like a b*tch but it helps sometimes just to pass the second of the urge and it causes pain if you do it for blood get a maker and trace over your scars that helps too but ummm go running when you get the urge thats what i do and it helps over all with deppresion

if you really want to stop you gotta get ride of the blades all... and try to get your mom to help with maken sure you cant find anything to hurt yourself with.....

Thanx everyoen for your advice and all....counciling thing is good i geuss i like the people there but....ive actually cut more than i used to i hav been addicted to cutting last year for some time then wasnt and now am again!!! but no on knows it cuz it on my hip everytime isee the cuts i wanna do it again and again and again so my hip is becoming pretty goory and it bleed through my pants one day in school pretty bad.....had a long sweat shirt on tho so no one saw thank god.... any way i put this topic up a while ago but now dont really even wanna stop i love my cuts and my scars and now i can get away with it without any oen seeing!!!!...altho i no my depression is screwing up my mom but for now cutting is the thing thats keeping me here so mak her happy so..... im good with it now..... im used to the pain and hiding it ive become an expert and im loving it im loving the blood each and every day.....

~sweet satan~