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  • olivia
    19 years ago

    well imo being the i dont liek my gf and i cant brk up with her due to drama sounds liek a line.if he didnt liek her he wouldnt be with her point blank and if he truly didnt like her it wouldtn matter if she was pregnnat itd matter less if he felt it wasnt his child.just cause they have a child doenst eman hed stay.i feel like hes with her cause he cares for her and has no real reason to break up i mena aftre all he has his girlfreind and can sleep with you as well looks liek he gets it good bothh ways. i think you should move on hes sleepign with you whiel ehs still with his gf thast shady cause liek i said if he dditn wnat to be with her he wouldnt be. find yourself a nice guy who wouldnt sleep around while being in a realtionship cause if he does taht while with her why would you think he wouldnt do that whiel with you.good luck.

  • browneyes
    19 years ago

    Thats a nasty situation your in there. All I can say is guys lie (just as much as girls do). What hes telling you doesn't sounds like total BS but it isn't reasonable for you either. What is he going to do? Stay with her for the rest of his life just so she won't make things "dramatic". He is taking the chance of sleeping with you and spending time with you, meanwhile dating his girlfriend. Isn't he afraid THAT will make things just as "dramatic" as leaving her would do?! If he cares for you then he will do whatever it takes to be with you, emotionally and physically (I hope). I understand that you are emotionally attached. And thats hard. But you can't put up with sh*t either. If hes not serious and continues on with her then it must mean he doesn't really want to leave her alone. Hes saying these bad things about her but he stays with her? Does he and her do things together very much? Ever think he could be 2-faced? Fro example : He could be saying all these bad things about you behind your back as well. I don't mean to make things worse but I sure as hell wish I had someone to tell me that when I was dating my ex. Thats what he did to me. :-/ Well thats my thoughts on this...
    Just reply back if you'd like me to further my advice to you...GoodLuck