BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
Ok so my friend dated this guy a year ago, he asked me out and she said it was fine she didn't care, so i said yes.. i loved him more than i originally planed to. he broke up with me for really stupid reasons which lead to my first heart break.. then my other friend started going out with him without my knowing.. which hurt a lot. then they broke up now my OTHER friend is going out with him! and i'm really confused cause i got permission from my friend, she didn't like him anyways, but my other two friends never asked me and i loved him.. actually i STILL love him.. they really back stabbed me.. but they are my best friends.. i don't know what to do anymore! i'm really hurt... any advice to get through this?? |
H. Elizabeth
13 years ago
Awwe...sweetie...that's a toughy...Just tell your friends how they made you feel and how they're making you feel. Let them know you still love that guy and if your friend still wants to date him then tell her that you at least don't want to see them together..... |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
Yeah i tried that before, the one who is recently dating him i told her how much i cared for him and i didnt want her dating him and all that shit and more but she ignore me then like a few ours later got her other friend to tell me off saying that if she wants to date him she can and i need to back off and all this harsh stuff and stuff. im just like forget life and friends... |
H. Elizabeth
13 years ago
I know what the hell you mean!!! People can be motherfers and if your "friend" told someone to tell you off, she ain't worth your time!! |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
Oh sorry britt tc forgot, wont happen again :) |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
I guess darien your right.. |
H. Elizabeth
13 years ago
Oh goodness sorry about the language Britt! It totally slipped my mind! Promise it won't happen again (: |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
I know i shouldn't, but its real hard since they are really the only friends i have, i mean i have a few others, but not much... |
Darien
13 years ago
Pfft, friends come and go all the time. Just like guys in your life. You'll make new friends, and you'll move on. There's no point wasting your time grieving for a guy who won't give a damn about you. |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
But whatever happened to the phrase 'boys will come and go but friends are there forever??? |
H. Elizabeth
13 years ago
Hate to break it to you, but that phrase isn't true...Sorry... |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
You sound like you could help with another problem im having... its really tearing me apart and i need help. its under the friends one and its call "loosing my friends??? please help!!' the ex im talking about is this one |
H. Elizabeth
13 years ago
Sure thing...I'll check it out right away |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
Thanks |
BehindTheSmile
13 years ago
Im slowly doing that.. me and him talk a lot still but just as friends... like a whiles ago i would never text him back.. so when i finally did he got upset thinking i was mad at him! :D it made me laugh |