Michael D Nalley
13 years ago
I am not a parent but I believe that family values are passed down and even when youth rebels those values will resurface at least in part as we mature |
Ingrid
13 years ago
Nana, parents matter, but peers matter also and to a larger degree than most of us think. During the time that I raised my son, I often came across books that seemed to cross my way at that moment in time on purpose. When I was asking myself that very question you are now, I found a book by Judith Rich Harris that made clear a child is as much yours as it is a child of its time and peers and the environment a child grows up in have a big influence as well, next to that of the parents/ family it is raised in. I have a link for you to the book I am referring to: |
Michael D Nalley
13 years ago
They say that the apple rarely falls far from the tree |
sibyllene
13 years ago
I think one of the biggest things parents pass on to their children is literacy. By the age of three, it's pretty easy to project a kid's overall success with reading later in life. After three, kids start being involved in school, where SOME literacy problem areas can be addressed, but a huge portion of a kid's reading success comes straight from their exposure to it in the home before the age of three. |
Michael D Nalley
13 years ago
"It is kind of like what britts grandpa always said if you're gonna screw up, hurry up and get it over with while you're young and it's easier to bounce back". I still remember the morals of the stories in the mother goose section of the childcraft world book encyclopedias my father bought for us. Sometimes when I practice what I preach it helps me bounce back from bad choices I have made in my life. Many creatures learn to survive their environments from innate knowledge and are sometimes taught by example. Humans are mental, emotional, and many times spiritual beings. We need more parental warmth and guidance than some reptiles |