whats the point of having a gf/bf?

what is the point?

It's fun for a start.

Alot of people like the comfort and reassurance.

Others are shallow enough to use them for jealousy, spit or revenge.

-Laura.

having a boyfriend or girlfriend means having someone to run to when your day isn't going right or some to talk to when nobody else will listne. or jus someone to hold you when you cry or just need to feel someones loving arms around you. there are a TON of reasons let me know if you need anymore because i will be more then happy to share.

o.O well? i do miss having a gf... but i think of the chances of me ever getting one... and i just wonder? whats the point of having one? even if you have one...and you have all those things u sayed.. run to your gf when ur sad or hold her when she crys ... in the end it all goes to the final answer? is the love between you and your gf real?
and when u have a girlfriend... u have some good stuff... and painful stuff.... ur gonna face heart break..your gonna get dumped.. your gonna get rejected.. your gonna get back stab... all those painful things just for some simple love between a person you thought who loves you... so really? answer me if am wrong

"is the love between you and your gf real?"

Well, Steven, there's only one way to find out... so there's your point.

And you're only 15, give yourself a chance and a bit of time. There are plenty more important things to be thinking about.

yeah... so i don't really think there's a point of having a girlfriend... cause there many things in the world you can do ... other then having someone who loves you or having a love that is fake...

At your age you don't need to be thinking about love... if you want a gf you can (and probably should) have a gf without the word LOVE even being mentioned. You all know it won't last... what's wrong with just having fun for a while, eh?

Seems like kids these days are rushing head on to be all grown up well before their time.

That hurts because it's true.

Love is complicate. Sometime it can be good and sometime bad. That is why it's so mysteriouse and why many ppl are in it. Having a GF/BF can complete your world, you'll have someone that you can always count on to, someone that loves you no matter what, and so on. Anyways, in the end it's your choice.

you do have a point... it's better to have someone you can count on and trust... but in the end... your still gonna have to face break up and broken hearted and stuff... so having a gf/bf has it's good sides and bad

i dunno, but it's sorta of having the feeling of someone luving u (not like ur parents and more then ur friends) they're there for u in a diferent way, and since they should only have 1 gf/bf (u) they're there for U not like ur friends who are there for u and all ur others friends...i'm just guessing that's what my friend said she wanted a boyfriend for anyways so ya...

It's true tho that being single is way less stress than having a gf/bf cuz u don't have to worry bout liking thee first grl/boy u see right away or if u just broke up...like what i mean is ur more FREE! i dunno that's how i feel right now, so that's why if someone asks me if i want a boyfriend i just say i don't care, cuz i don't necessarly NEED one u noe wat i mean? well ya anyways that's how I feel! :)

There isn't one really
Just something and someone to do whilst passing the time...

Except actually one thing I found valuable about having boyfriends is they really showed me the qualities I don't want in a husband...

u know? my friend has a girlfriend... and he doesn't seem happy when he use to be a person who filled with joy... cause the girl is controling him and he losing his mind... so to tell you the truth? having a gf/bf isn't a good idea at all... cause sometimes u lose control and just use the ablity to think...

Ye gotta pik da right person. I love my g/f she lloves me too. It feels good to hold some1. And i'm only 13 heh. Anyways relationships can vary.

Luye

The point is to have someone who you can spend time with and connect with on different levels, that u cant reach with regular friends, also there are benefits...~smiles~ but only if u are mature enought to handle them

o.O what kind of benefits? haha

that is so true... but what piss me off is... me and my girlfriend had one little fight...and she dumps me! it's like she had the ball in her court the whole time... she could pull the plug anytime... and she pulls the plug when we just had a little fight... that just piss me off.. she could go ram in to a wall for all care... but what kinda sucks is i miss the hugs and i miss the love :(... so really? is there a point to have a girlfriend?

yah i think there is she jsut didnt luv u enuff to fite for u.... ull find someone better:)

i really dont know

lol i guess everyone should wait for the perfect girl to come up! and just stay single for a few years... am sure in time everyone gonna find a perfect girlfriend/boyfriend... i found a girl who was just like me... but didn't love me... hahaha we were perfect for each other... but the love just wasn't there... sigh... sucks to have gf to tell you the truth.. but there are some good stuff.... so i don't really know the point of having a gf... cause my friend once told me that? i was just like a friend to her... haha that kinda piss me off ... so i didn't took it and took the hard path ... so isn't having a gf just like having a friend? as my ex-gf would say

Comfort and support, oh and sex.

Those are pretty much the only reasons, but they are all pretty big ones, right? Not that you NEED a boyfriend or a girlfriend for sex, but it makes the situation different

lol having a gf only for sex and suportt.. aww now i really miss having a gf... not for the sex... but for the support =/...

You will know what's the point when you will find the right person.

i mean how would a person know? if the girl the perfect or right person for them? ... like my ex-gf once sayed to me... everything i did... was just a thing her friend would do...

havin a boyfrend is gr8 if hes the right person. i hav the right person now an its the gr8est time of my life. its nice to hav sum1 there wen ur upset or horny. its nice havin sum1 to kiss anytime u want. i went fru the stage of just makin out wiv random guys all the time an its fun but it gets old fast. havin one person to share a part of your life wiv, to hav memories wiv is amazin, i dont know how people wudnt want that

Steve, at 15 it's most likely you don't even know how you feel half the time... that's how it was for me at anyrate.

Girlfriends right now are about a bit of security mixed with a dab of sexual exploration and discovery.

Friend is half of girlfriend for a reason, and what your ex says makes perfect sense to me. Sounds like you were taking things a bit too seriously for her liking.

Remember, forget about love for now and just enjoy yourself. If you think things are complicated now, give it a few years and when you look back... man you'll be happy for taking it easy.

A note on a man's view on women (Girls, do not take offence.)

All the girls give good advice, but it's still a girls perspective. As men we don't understand them, won't understand them and can't understand them. That's what we do, we take things on board at face value. So take in what they have to say and then realise there's about 50 hidden meanings mixed in that we'll never get.

Right now the perfect girl is the one who says 'yes' when you ask them out. You won't be getting married, you won't be together forever and you wont have kids unless you're both irrational, illogical, selfish and stupid.

Just have fun with the girls while you concentrate on school. Education is far more importantant than anything you'll have with a girl at 15 years of age.

I know where-of I speak.

Bert

am not talking about me having a gf... cause i gave up on those crap! am talking about? wahts the real point of having a gf/bf? great time? great kiss? great time?great hugs? break up? broken hearts? it's all gonna end the same no matter how perfect you be or how much you gave up... in the end the girl lose intrest and dumps you... or the boy loses interst and dumps the girl.. that how the system works for all i care... and really? tell me ! is there a point of having a gf/bf?

Love isn't a game, well for some people. You're talking like it's one.

i think that love is a human creation... if people weren't taught their entire life that love is something good, or something they want to have, then they probably wouldnt see what the big deal is. and as for having a bf/gf... i think it's just something to do.. peole see other people doing it and they get curious... but thats just my opinion.

-jenn

lol, amen Bert.

love is a power... that if ur strong and u believe... u can hold on... but if ur weak and can't? u lose love and love just leaves you forever :( so why share the love with a gf/bf? cause? my ex-gf would say... having a bf or gf just like having a close friend.. i hate her when she says that crap =/

My wife is my best friend. That's the whole point.

o.O ahh i see... all i can say is? hold on and never let go ... cause when u lose a gf/bf... u tend to lose ur mind