Elect a Mod! #2

No, Britt joined my group after I became a mod. Anyone in The Club can testify to that.
There are no lies and you know it.

Bob, let it go. You were an ass to me in a convo we had and I summarized the gist of it to my friends. I was venting and what I said was none of your business, just like if you say crap about me to your friends behind my back... honestly, I don't care. Friends are there to vent to and rely on. At this point, I don't care that the convo happened even if it hurt my feelings at the time. If it makes you feel better, I will tell everyone that you were actually a complete gentleman to me and I lied. Whatever. Just let sleeping dogs lie for once.

And this is why I would never want to become a mod, too much drama.

I'm sorry Bob, but I have to take offense to you calling Jane a liar. Any person that is willing to admit that they did something wrong instead of covering it up is not a liar. She is a good woman that cares a lot about this site.

Also, even though Britt may have views that are polar opposites of you, that is no reason to dislike her as a moderator. She does a damn good job.

Sibs is easily one of the sweetest people here and possibly the best poet on the site. I know mod duties don't have much to do with actual poetry but it never hurts.

All three work extremely hard to keep this site moving. I know they have made mistakes, every person here has. But as far as I know they own up to them and gladly apologize to the members here.

"Excuse me but I didnt step down I logged in one day and I noticed that I was no longer a mod. No explanation no pm nothing so someone has to stop lying and grow a spine and admit what really happened"

Illum, I will have every mod come in here and testify to the fact you asked to be demoted. If I am remembering incorrectly, I will apologize and admit my error immediately.
I would not lie if it went down the way you claim it did. There's nothing for me to hide. If there had been a vote to demote you without your consent, I would have voted to do it. You were absent for weeks without notice, and sporadically available before then.

"Bob told me I'll never be a good mod and he hopes I fall flaT on my face...among other nasty things I supposedly had said.....this is what you said that I said to you in a conversation, which we never had....."

Bob, although you deleted your account I think I still have access to those series of pm's between us. I will find them and post them here. Yes, the conversation happened. Sorry.

If my memory serves me britt came into the club as a DCM experiment and that only began after Jane accepted the moderator status

Come to the rescue? How about come clarify the reality of what you're talking about? Britt doesn't need to rescue me but obviously what I say doesn't get through to you, so other people pitching in helps...

Thanks AJ, by the way. I appreciate your post a lot, I know it sucks to get involved in the drama so it was brave of you to write something.

I am heading out to dinner with the parents, but I will be back.

Bob, I honestly never meant to lie about our conversation. Yes I enhanced it with foul language because that's how I talk(ed) with my homies in my club, but it was never meant to get out. Plus, anything I said to them would have no sway over their personal feelings toward you. They're all independent minded individuals and can formulate their own ideas.
I understand you felt violated because I put your words into my own words which were much more offensive, but honestly, I apologized and I don't think it impacted anyone else. I will say sorry again. I'm sorry.
Now will you be forever angry at me or can we let it go?

Illum - you and the mods all know those were the first pm's between you and Sher. There were more and they escalated tremendously!

Ok, then emails. I mispoke, but I am not lying and I'm getting very sick of being called a liar. Lying is HORRIBLE and I despise liars so you're calling me the one thing I hate more than anything and you actually believe it! One of us must be remembering incorrectly because we can't both be right.

Locking this thread now. It's full, feel free to start a new one.